December 2017 - Girl in Htown

Live Richer Challenge

Live Richer Challenge So a little gift for myself a few months back was to buy this book Live Richer Challenge < (click the picture to get your copy and follow along with me ). I honestly wanted to increase my score about 100 points with a goal date of one…

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Why I will never accept a 24 dollar struggle ring from Kay’s

I never received a 24 dollar ring I can openly say this I still have a love for my ex-husband but not in the I love him way but he’s family good or bad. We have kids together and I shared 10 years of my adult life with him. Our marriage ended badly and we were both to blame I…

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Fresh starts no broken hearts

30 minutes into my “Fresh Start” I realized what I had just done. I wanted a fresh start and within the last 4 months of 2017, I have kept my focus on keeping my peace, Fresh starts, and overall happiness. I thought it would be the perfect time to also revamp my entire blog look and website which also caused me…

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SAY NO TO STRUGGLE LOVE

STRUGGLE LOVE=NO Struggle Love benefits no one “There is nothing wrong with having standards. There is something very wrong with settling just for the sake of companionship. Buy the shoes, drink the wine, love with every fiber of your soul. “

7 Effective Ways To Set Your Goals In Motion Today October 26, 2020
Stop seeking approval from people. You don’t need anyone’s permission to fulfill your dream. Trust yourself and give yourself permission to succeed. Having support from people whose opinion you value is a wonderful thing If you really desire to turn your idea into reality, constantly floating it around and seeking the approval of people […]
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5 + 5 = Your Dream October 25, 2020
I know what you’re thinking… Okay, Kay, 5+5 does not equal 5 so let me please explain. Let’s start with a question. How many times have you heard that you need to have a “long term” goal and be focused for the entire length of that “long term”? In this article, I am going […]
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Limited Options and a feeling of hopelessness October 24, 2020
I am over it Bums emotionally unavailable broke deadbeats narcissist ass man Please don’t tell me it’s what you attract. I am all for accountability in the moments I ignored the red flags but come the fuck on. I am chatting with some friends this week and all of our convos are about men in […]
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Where is Happiness? October 23, 2020
Where is Happiness? Do you move through life feeling every day is the same? Like some repeated pattern that goes on and on? For some people, there’s nothing new to do under the sun, and nowhere to go. Everything is just boring, boring, boring. They work so hard to earn enough money to play, but […]
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5 Steps to Goal Setting Success October 22, 2020
Goal setting is the true secret to success in any area of life. But although setting a goal may seem simple, achieving it is usually another question altogether. Why is that? Because you will never achieve your goals unless you: (1) know exactly what you want, (2) are passionate about your goal, and (3) […]
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I am trying to have a garden like Jody’s mom October 15, 2020
I never understood why my mother and grandmother loved gardens . I thought it was weird and I honestly killed every plant I ever owned 🙄😒. This pandemic however forced me to sit back go into straight hermit mode and find a way to ground and center myself and with this patio at the new […]
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Are you basic? October 14, 2020
DO YOU? give off the appearance of being strong? get pushed around? fall for male manipulation more times than you can count? Wish you were someone else? Wear a mask to hide who you really are? are you ego based at the mercy of the world? you have a need to be validated by men […]
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Letters to men who have only wanted to “go with the flow” me October 14, 2020
I’ve always wanted to write a scathing letter and send it off to the men that have just wanted to “go with the flow”. Or even better I am out in public with my new amazing man and we see your ass make small talk for you to wish us well and tell him how […]
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Letters to my “lovers” October 13, 2020
Dating sucks I mean honestly, what’s better than talking with someone weeks or months on end finally become intimate for them to vanish without a trace. What is better than a man wanting to do everything under the sun that looks like a relationship just to say he doesn’t want to be in a relationship […]
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Focusing on Success!!! October 10, 2020
It’s so easy to let your mind get preoccupied and lose track of your goals and dreams. The world is more full of distractions than ever before, and they are all at our fingertips – social networking, computer games, television, mobile devices, and so on. And even if you don’t give in to those […]
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