Single in the city

Tinder tales *side eyes*

I’m running fast and far away. I jumped back on tinder again since my sabbatical has ended. I’m still dating just felt that I was ready to put myself out there. I decided not to overwhelm myself with Tinder since it can be pretty overwhelming. How wrong am I to not want to rush anything? how wrong am I to…

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Single in the city

1 , 2, 3 strikes you’re out!

Just partaking in my nightly past time on tinder. He was around and lasted about a month I finally decided to unmatch him since after every time I’m trying to get to know him he’s discussing my looks or calling me baby and honey. I corrected him and he still called me sexy I get it men are visual creatures…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so Important Part 3

Why Vetting and the  kids topic are very important   I had a friend that was  in a relationship with a man for 5 years  they started with the same ideas that neither wanted children as time grew on my friend changed her mind and never brought it up or talked with her boyfriend and the demise of the relationship…

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so important part 2

  Vetting and Relationship “goals” Everyone loves the looks of relationship goals but does anyone honestly understand that it actually means more than just matching outfits and taking cool vacation pics? When I called off my marriage it took those that weren’t super close to me by surprise. on the outside, I had a super successful military husband we had the…

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so important

What is Vetting? With time and asking the right questions, bad dating experiences can be avoided. One thing I did in the past was meet someone, like them, barely know them sleep with them and Bam we are together. Truth be told this is how a lot of relationships are developed toss a new baby in the mix that’s the…

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LOVE, Single in the city

Be Aware It is Cuffing season

AH, the Joys of Cuffing Season Gotta love  “Cuffing” Season The warnings usually start around the time it gets cold. Don’t fall for the hobosexuals . Dudes out here looking for homes to stay. I never realized how much I usually will avoid someone around this time of year and that it’s usually when I take my sabbatical.     Holding…

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