You share stories, memes, videos laugh react. Then you have a brief encounter on a status build a “bond” with people and boom friend request and then they are the best bud on your timeline. I can honestly say no one on social media would be in a bucket as a best friend like my real life best friends. I…
Month: December 2018
Merry Christmas y’all
This was a year of change , reflection and humbleness for sure. I realized my worth in the working world and that I know longer wanted to live paycheck to paycheck. I pounded the pavement to land my dream job and it came at the perfect moment. I’ve become closer with family members I lost touch with and exiled friends…
You may be the shitty men you “hate”
There are women complaining online everyday about men forcing themselves in their lives everyday. -forcing them to speak. -feeling as if they are entitled to their time. -feel as if that woman is obligated to date them . -tell the men no not interested and they continue The list can go on and on. These same women will harass another…
Shitty girlfriends can be just as bad as the shitty men you pick
We know the traits when a man is trying to gaslight us and is no good and his time is up in our lives. Why are we unable to cancel our shitty girlfriends? I go out and wear something hideous I want my friends to be real and open and honest with me in a loving matter. Having toxic friendships…
Why protecting your peace is a must for 2019
I decided a few months back to stop engaging in trolling online going back and forth with women and men who I honestly don’t know in real life. This came to parts shortly after I watched a woman in what I can only call online bullying another woman over the course of a week. I took a detox from social…
Do you know what today is ?
Here’s a hint lol: So one year ago today this guy asked me to choose him. I said nothing and cooked dinner for him at my place lol. The last year has been one hell of a ride and I mean this in the most positive way. I will always say this ( unless something…
Ghost men are your blessing blockers
I posted this year ago on my Facebook : PSA for ghost men or popcorn dudes: I have a game plan I am dating with a purpose. I am trying to get a nice sexy hubby to fatten up, do tricks on his dick, and maybe pop out a kid (i said maybe). I can’t have your inconsistent ass popping…
The “You Are Enough” 30-Day Blogging Challenge!
Day 23: Today is my 40th birthday! Write about a milestone or significant birthday. I’ve always said my 30th birthday was my best and most low-key Milestone I’ve ever had out of all my birthdays. On my 21st birthday going out partying and drinking with my friends for the first legal time was not on the agenda lol , I…
The “You Are Enough” 30-Day Blogging Challenge!
Day 22: In Chapter Sixteen, I discuss “Why We Cling to People Who Don’t Love Us.” Talk about a time when you clung to someone who didn’t love you, why you think you had such a hard time letting go, and how you finally tapped into your inner “enough-ness” to walk away. I think I’ve only briefly talked about mr.…
The “You Are Enough” 30-Day Blogging Challenge!
Day 21: Also in Chapter Fifteen, I talk about falling for a “lost boy,” someone who was too broken and too selfish to ever be able to love me like I deserved. Talk about your own experiences with a Lost Boy. What did he teach you? And how did you learn and grow from finally letting him go? Prior…