June 2019 - Girl in Htown

Okc is now reloaded

*rolls eyes* why are these men on dating sites they have pay for play and websites geared just for this but no let’s force our stuff on people looking for something of substance. *scratches head*

Single in the city

Is it wrong for me to think ugly men need to stay in their lanes?

I know I am not every mans cup of tea. I’m not a 10 im a solid 8 when I doll myself up and a 6 on a regular ass walmart day. *checks mirror* And before you judge the fuck out of me sometimes I will match with folks who profiles speak to me they may be homely in a…

Single in the city

New phone who dis?

Some guys put a memory so far in my mind if I see them or we dated and I see them again on a dating app the memories come back. I legit have no memory of him in my memory bank. Usually, if I don’t call you its for a pretty damn good reason.

Single in the city

Ed talked himself out of pussy dont be Ed

Hes got a great job , in real estate heaven in Houston , owns his own business and a body like a Demi God When he mentioned my body the 2 other times I tried to bring the topic back and he found a way to round table it again . I’m disappointed but not shocked . 37 years old.…

Single in the city

Off bumble , my weekend, and dick pic I received on snap (NSFW THERE IS DICK IN THIS BLOG)

Africans usually for different reasons get a bad rap here I Thought it was interesting to put a city that is expensive to stay in as one of the places you are from and not where you actually are from. I assumed he was Nigerian but yea this was kinda it with me and Bumble I shut the account down…

Family, LIFE, Single in the city, The advisor

Welp I’m good a weekend of self care

He tried to WYD me a few more times before I finally unmatched him this will be my last week on Bumble so I can take a break from it when I start getting messages more like this and less of conversation that’s when I know I need to step back. So this was eventually how the advisor and I…

Single in the city

Mama’s boys

I think I’ll pass

Single in the city

Tinder never dissapoints

I feel like you’re lying lol I knew what he meant I’m broke , come see me . I just like to clarify also checked on the Astros thing he’s lying lol . I was dead ass serious lol

Single in the city, The advisor

GHOSTING IS A NARCISSISTIC TRAIT TOO

You lot that think you can ghost on people and disappear from friendships without a word, or otherwise run from human interaction without explanation should remember that you aren’t the only human in the equation and that you aren’t the only one who matters. You can hurt people. You don’t have to. (This doesn’t apply to abusive or toxic situations…

Single in the city

Asmr and fetishes on bumble

I am huge on oral hygiene yea im good on being your creepy fetish LOL ok i enjoyed him lol it was all going so well and you had to make it weird lol

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