TOPICS This week: – The grown-ass insecure man I met this week that yelled at me -what’s going on with the site and blog during the holidays -my dating sabbatical […]
Podcast Episode 33
TOPICS This week this will be an actual Live: – Love Bombing with the Nigerian -what’s going on with the site and blog during the holidays -my dating […]
Nigerian Bae
So we met on POF in October We spent a great deal online talking before taking it offline and meeting in public a few things. I had to adjust our […]
Why you should follow my journey
I understand I am not everyone’s cup of tea. I am however someone’s dirty martini (blue cheese olives please) Who am I really? I’m an unorthodox mom (being a millennial […]
Start thinking of your 2020 goals now
1. Improve Your Physical Health How in the world are you going to reach any goals with bad health? Remember when you had that cold, fever or aching back? Were […]
Pof tales
So he thought it would be great to create another profile. We exchanged numbers (i realize later he did this) for him to want to talk on the […]
FEAR AND REASON.
We have all heard the seemingly discriminating remarks that fear is normal and abnormal, and that normal fear is to be regarded as a friend, while abnormal fear should be […]
Digging to the root of your problems
Most people have some aspects of themselves that they would like to change. But how often do you dig deeply to find the root of the problem? You have to […]
Spiritual Growth: the Spiritual Challenge of Modern Times
To grow spiritually in a world defined by power, money, and influence is a Herculean task. Modern conveniences such as electronic equipment, gadgets, and tools as well as entertainment through […]
I had to kick him off the bench
My stories with Nigerian men specifically never end well with me. I want to slightly blame cultural reasons or differences but at some point, I do want to sit back […]