I’m sure you read a lot of times this sentence: you need first to love yourself. But what does that mean? reading a book on self-love? Taking a weekend getaway with just you? Become sexually liberated? Loving yourself means to learn to treat you like a loving parent would do with his child. When you are an adult, and I…
I managed to not have a in your face racist ass moment happen to me until I was 34 years old. I am not saying that I have never encountered a racist in my life it’s just that it’s presented to me in what is considered a new age southern Texas type of Racism. Told how to wear my hair…
If you aren’t happy, why aren’t you? Chances are it is because you want something which you do not have, objects or conditions. This is probably not a good enough reason and a review of your situation and perceptions may be in order. “Happiness consists more in small conveniences of pleasures that occur every day, than in great…
So I am trying to put my feet in the water with the online dating again and of course, as usual, it is providing some interesting treats one I have always wondered why men set up profiles and there is never anything in the BIO or a Meme as their profile pic but a toilet is a new one for…
Happiness is one of the most commonly used words. If I win a lottery, I become happy. As I spend all the money, I become unhappy again. When you call me a good person, I feel happy, and when you curse me, I feel very miserable. Outside forces and events sometimes can control our emotions. Let us find out…
Many people try to hold a raging fire within themselves, but it restlessly and relentlessly gnaws at their core. Some have tried to cover it up with alcohol, numb it with drugs, hide it with shopping, kids, work, or religion, or fuel it with sex. The Baby Boomers looked for eternal youth and to change the world. They thought…
If you want to be happy tomorrow you need to begin working at it today. Some people spend their lives waiting for happiness to arrive on their own and it never comes. Others work hard at creating wealth but still aren’t happy, discovering that money only brings a whole different set of problems. Happiness is a state of mind and…
