Single in the city

Are you Disqualifying Great Men ?

What about your friends?

I have had friendships with my best friends ranging in years as early as  5 years and some almost 20 years. When I feel as if I am not doing something right I head to my friends since I know they know me and they will never steer me wrong, or just tell me some crap I want to hear. They know when I want to vent and I am not asking for advice and they know when I need it and they offer some pretty sound input and also know if I don’t take the input not to get mad because they trust me and love me enough to make sure I know this.

I have always had an issue making friends with men at some point they are trying to fuck me, or just some other motives all together until last October I became friends with a wonderful man from all places I never thought I would: FACEBOOK lol.


You Don’t need to Disqualify him. He will disqualify himself.


I hate to even admit it but he was right I sat back and pondered and thought of all the men I was genuinely interested in and something happened to make feel that he was no longer a great pick to continue dating. I didn’t need to have internal think tank roundtable topics with my girls he just put himself out the running all on his own.

My friends have realized this about me I bounce back strong and I love hard. Stop disqualifying every man for every small thing sit back and watch and let them disqualify themselves.

They will.

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About KayDarden

My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog. On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
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