Are you Disqualifying Great Men ?

What about your friends?

I have had friendships with my best friends ranging in years as early as  5 years and some almost 20 years. When I feel as if I am not doing something right I head to my friends since I know they know me and they will never steer me wrong, or just tell me some crap I want to hear. They know when I want to vent and I am not asking for advice and they know when I need it and they offer some pretty sound input and also know if I don’t take the input not to get mad because they trust me and love me enough to make sure I know this.

I have always had an issue making friends with men at some point they are trying to fuck me, or just some other motives all together until last October I became friends with a wonderful man from all places I never thought I would: FACEBOOK lol.

 

You Don’t need to Disqualify him. He will disqualify himself.

 

I hate to even admit it but he was right I sat back and pondered and thought of all the men I was genuinely interested in and something happened to make feel that he was no longer a great pick to continue dating. I didn’t need to have internal think tank roundtable topics with my girls he just put himself out the running all on his own.

My friends have realized this about me I bounce back strong and I love hard. Stop disqualifying every man for every small thing sit back and watch and let them disqualify themselves.

They will.

Published by KayDarden

Howdy, folks! I'm the creative force behind the blog "Girl in H-Town." I wear a few hats – writer, mental health advocate, and I like to think of myself as a "dating wing woman" with a passion for empowering women, helping them heal from their trauma, and improving their mental well-being. I was born and raised in a small Texas town, and let me tell you, life threw some real curveballs my way. I focus on empowerment, self-care, and self-love. When you read my blog, you're getting a piece of my heart – it's raw, honest, and deeply personal. I pour my own journey of healing and self-discovery into every word. When I'm not tapping away on the keyboard or working, I enjoy the simple things in life. I'm a bookworm, love tending to my garden, and find peace in yoga. But my pride and joy? Well, that'd be my super genius teenagers. Family is everything to me, and I'm committed to using my platform to positively impact this world. Whether you're looking for inspiration, guidance, or just an ol' Texas story, my writing is here to make a lasting impression. I'm a staunch advocate for mental health and an essential voice in the conversation around trauma and healing. So, if you're ready to be inspired, stick around. Kay Darden of "Girl in H-Town" is here to give you a Texas-sized dose of wisdom and heart.

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