Is your goal setting making you unhappy? Have you ever created a goal and got frustrated because of it? Are you trapping yourself with your goal setting strategies? Now is the time to learn better strategies that will take you straight to success while having fun during the process of getting there because when you apply this advice you…
Author: KayDarden
My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog.
On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
Why life can be what you imagine, if you let it
Life, as you know it today, can change tomorrow, and be what you always imagined and wanted it to be. I’m not talking about just dreaming about it, but actually living the life you want day in and day out year after year until you leave this earth. Your imagination, and thought pattern control every aspect of your life, from…
Finding You in Healing the Hidden Self
At one time, people thought outer appearance made the person. However, today, people are starting to realize that beauty is skin deep, while inner beauty is to the bone. Today people are running to find ways to develop themselves. Recently, personality development courses opened to help these people find their way. Now, people are not spending countless dollars on…
Emotional Baggage
We all have them. It has many faces. We carry them around us, We store them in the remotest part of our brain, in the deepest chambers of our hearts. We have them in our extensive database of memories. Also, Others may feel anger, very deep resentments, and may exhibit anti-social or antagonistic behaviors. Shadows follow and haunt many,…
Another retrograde another ghost man
😒😒😒 the story changes but you can always count on a ghost man popping up . He was blocked after this But this is the back story with him we met 4 years ago he popped in and out for two years before it was stopped when I started seeing Nate. I tried again after Nate and I ended it…
Alone But Not Lonely
In today’s fast-paced society, we’ve become accustomed to filling the eeriness of silence with fluff. We turn to many distractions as a means of escaping feelings of idleness or boredom. But the main thing we wish to elude is loneliness. Solitude does not have to alienate or lonesome. In fact, solitude and loneliness are distinctly separate. The death of a…
I’m sorry I came quick.
I waited for two months. Ok, pause I was busy with work and the summer trying to get my property and casualty license, and having sex was just on the back burner for a minute. Everyone I was dating after Nate I ended those happily I however always kept this guy on my roster in some way. I’m not sure…
If You’ll … Then I’ll …
Fill in the blanks in the above sentence however you want. Have you heard this often? Do you say it often? Do you think about it often? This simple sentence is a contract that is often unconsciously created with people, and it can have a disastrous effect on your life. Just the other day, I was thinking of the Panamanian…
MY 35TH How I am celebrating
With the Move, Dovear Passing, and with my mother Passing all within 5 months. 2020 is going to go down in my history Rolodex as a memorable time lol. I mean that in the most sarcastic way possible all my stuff has bounced off the track and I was forced to go into a Hermit Mode and rearrange my life…
Mommy dearest a series on Toxic Motherhood-July 24th the day My mother died
The heart attack 2 years later I receive a phone call from my sister she advised me that this time my mother was in the hospital at this point my mother had been going to the hospital every so many months but this one was more or less on the borderline of seriousness. there aren’t very many times that I…