Let’s be honest this is a fucking lie. If I had a $100 bill for every time a man : Approached me Asked for my number Mindlessly texted me Called me with surface-level conversation Ask me out Text me more Lead with his dick Only for him to do all this and tell me he is not ready for a…
What have you been focusing on lately? My focus has been: Meditating, my kids, I just moved so redecorating my new place, I want to take up Gardening as well, and my business What You Think is What You Are I can just hear you spluttering. “What kind of romantic thinking is this? Where do these ideas come from?…
To give happiness is considered a virtue. Please try and make others happy, say the thinkers. I don’t know what precisely they mean by that. So unless I meet one of them and find out the true meaning of the statement, let me put my ideas here and think. If accidentally, I step on someone’s foot on a busy street,…
We’ve all heard the cliché ‘The grass is always greener in our neighbor’s yard’. What they don’t tell you is that his grass still has to be mowed, watered, weeded, raked, and fertilized. The Buddha was the first to recognize that emotional pain can be just as real and debilitating as physical pain. Through careful observation he determined that…
It’s all about love. It may seem trite to say, but it’s true. Love is where it’s at. What do you want to do in life? It goes easier with love in your heart. Want better relationships, or better family life? Make sure love is in your heart. Trying to do a better job at work? Do it with love.…
I’m sure you read a lot of times this sentence: you need first to love yourself. But what does that mean? reading a book on self-love? Taking a weekend getaway with just you? Become sexually liberated? Loving yourself means to learn to treat you like a loving parent would do with his child. When you are an adult, and I…
I managed to not have a in your face racist ass moment happen to me until I was 34 years old. I am not saying that I have never encountered a racist in my life it’s just that it’s presented to me in what is considered a new age southern Texas type of Racism. Told how to wear my hair…
If you aren’t happy, why aren’t you? Chances are it is because you want something which you do not have, objects or conditions. This is probably not a good enough reason and a review of your situation and perceptions may be in order. “Happiness consists more in small conveniences of pleasures that occur every day, than in great…
So I am trying to put my feet in the water with the online dating again and of course, as usual, it is providing some interesting treats one I have always wondered why men set up profiles and there is never anything in the BIO or a Meme as their profile pic but a toilet is a new one for…
Happiness is one of the most commonly used words. If I win a lottery, I become happy. As I spend all the money, I become unhappy again. When you call me a good person, I feel happy, and when you curse me, I feel very miserable. Outside forces and events sometimes can control our emotions. Let us find out…
