Author: KayDarden

My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog. On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
Fashion

shoedazzle top picks

  Feb lookbook by kaydardenmccullen featuring pumps   Pumps shoedazzle.com Pumps shoedazzle.com COMMANDER IN CHIC SHOULDER BAG – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com CRISS CROSS ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com CRISS CROSS ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com OFF SHOULDER RUFFLE ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com OFF SHOULDER RUFFLE ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com   MY Shoedazzle Top Picks […]

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Single in the city

Chocolate chasers

I am an equal opportunity dater. I do not like chocolate chasers. I didn’t realize this was a thing until I moved to North Carolina in 2011, I met so many military men from the Midwest that never had a black woman and wanted me to be their first, one should be flattered but I was […]

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so important part 6

My sex drive  is weird When I was pregnant  I never wanted to be touched and according to my friends, all of them wanted sex more I am not sure if that was my marriage and how  I felt or if that is just my thing. I am saying this because my sex drive was the same […]

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so Important part 5

I was blessed with a Mother in Law not from Hell I have heard horror stories from Friends about their  In-laws and the families of the person they have dated. I don’t mind a family oriented person I do mind Helicopter parents and family members with a grown a man. I missed Family get together since my ex-was […]

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so Important Part 4

Few mistakes I made in my marriage with money were: not setting up a budget for our household not save for when it was time to end  I know how that sounds, it’s like a bad idea to already think of leaving when you are married but my mother has been married for 34  years […]

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Single in the city

Stop wasting your time and send invoices

My profile says I am single. I also state not looking for hookups and his profile was blank and usually, this is what they are looking for. I guess he got angry and reported my profile to Tinder and they deleted it.

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Single in the city

Boo, sexy,honey, dark chocolate

There is nothing more unattractive and nothing that dries my vagina up more are “cutesy ” pet names when I barely know you. I usually will put my name on the profile fill out my profile and make it witty and interesting. What do I get? Weirdos calling me chocolate, thick or what guys calling […]

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Single in the city

Are you Disqualifying Great Men ?

What about your friends? I have had friendships with my best friends ranging in years as early as  5 years and some almost 20 years. When I feel as if I am not doing something right I head to my friends since I know they know me and they will never steer me wrong, or just […]

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