Author: KayDarden

My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog. On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
7 days of Self Care

7 days of self care (ASMR)

3 years ago I was involved  in one  of the  most stressful events  in my  life with an EX and my best friend  Heather suggested ASMR  to help calm my nerves ASMR : Autonomous sensory meridian response Autonomous sensory meridian response (ASMR) is a calming, pleasurable feeling often accompanied by a tingling sensation. This tingle is […]

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7 days of Self Care

7 days of Self Care (listen to music )

Music has a way to change your mood, get you going through another chapter, bring up old feelings and sometimes give you the strength you never thought you had. I usually will have a whole day to clean up and organize my home and declutter things and music is involved during this time. I decided to have […]

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7 days of Self Care

7 days of self care(social media detox)

A few weeks back I had this weird overwhelming feeling it was work, it was my personal relationships with friends, Family and the man I was seeing. It was Social Media it was all of it The moment I took that moment to take a break I felt so much better and my time was […]

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Fashion

Bring on the bling

I don’t need it but I do. Ulta along with tacos are my weakness. Check out my haul: Let’s start with makeup revolution they are cheap and low key kinda knock off a lot of major companies, I have a lip duo from them that I loved the color but it didn’t make my heart […]

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Family
LIFE
Single in the city
Things I see

It is not your issue or problem on what another woman has done to him

My recently single sister is finding out lots of things about the dating world and how much it has changed within the last 6 years. Our last topic was on the meet and greets apparently she was running into men wanting to meet up at parking lots public places none the less but places where […]

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Throwback Series

Single in the city: now that’s how you have a first date

Met  online  and went  out for drinks and  shared an  appetize we  had great conversation , laughed  talked about Football since the Superbowl was  in town at the moment  . the date ended and  he asked to see me again the following week and asked for suggestions  . I suggested Bowling at one  of my favorite […]

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LIFE
Throwback Series

My exes are bitter

I always start this story the same with going into details about my ex-husband I’ve never told a full story just cliff notes when topics fit. I sat down with my kids this summer and had to talk with them about me and why our father and I divorced. I didn’t make myself out to […]

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Single in the city
Things I see
Throwback Series
Toxic Series
Vetting Series

Hey Big Head

a variation of conversation starters for men who just decided without a second thought to ghost you and reappear. I found myself throughout the last few years getting into combative arguments with men who disappeared and came back like nothing happened, to demand that they take their place as if they never left only to […]

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Live Richer Challenge-Credit

day 13-15

day 14 video So after watching this I called all my card companies and asked for an increase in not eliganle until November and I am perfectly fine with waiting just trying to do anytjing to help. I feel like my utilization is a huge reason for my 28 point drop since this was the […]

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