Single in the city

Married men

Married men are still men that are  Separated  I find this especially with African men that have moved to Houston all their children are in another country with their wives and he is Muslime I am not  . also, I am no one’s fucking Damsel

Single in the city

When do you immediately block a guy?

I hate when the dating profile doesn’t match the inbox conversation I also love the  fact of when they show their intentions so quickly .it’s a hit and miss with it  and you never know what they will be like inside the  inbox , I am not even sure why he needs a ride or die  or someone with brains…

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Fashion

I dyed My Hair

So I am 32 and I have never dyed my hair and received my dazzle vox box from Influenster for free to do a review on a few items and give my honest opinion the items in my Vox box were  : Gold Bond Ultimate Radiance Renewal Lotion Clairol Professional Jazzing Sheer Haircolor (My color was Racy Wine) Clairol Professional…

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Fashion

shoedazzle top picks

  Feb lookbook by kaydardenmccullen featuring pumps   Pumps shoedazzle.com Pumps shoedazzle.com COMMANDER IN CHIC SHOULDER BAG – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com CRISS CROSS ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com CRISS CROSS ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com OFF SHOULDER RUFFLE ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com OFF SHOULDER RUFFLE ONE PIECE – ShoeDazzle shoedazzle.com   MY Shoedazzle Top Picks I am so ready for…

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Single in the city

Chocolate chasers

I am an equal opportunity dater. I do not like chocolate chasers. I didn’t realize this was a thing until I moved to North Carolina in 2011, I met so many military men from the Midwest that never had a black woman and wanted me to be their first, one should be flattered but I was not lol. It is a…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so important part 6

My sex drive  is weird When I was pregnant  I never wanted to be touched and according to my friends, all of them wanted sex more I am not sure if that was my marriage and how  I felt or if that is just my thing. I am saying this because my sex drive was the same with both of my children.…

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so Important part 5

I was blessed with a Mother in Law not from Hell I have heard horror stories from Friends about their  In-laws and the families of the person they have dated. I don’t mind a family oriented person I do mind Helicopter parents and family members with a grown a man. I missed Family get together since my ex-was in the military and I…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so Important Part 4

Few mistakes I made in my marriage with money were: not setting up a budget for our household not save for when it was time to end  I know how that sounds, it’s like a bad idea to already think of leaving when you are married but my mother has been married for 34  years and she always told me…

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