I remember the first time I met Dovear I was in the eighth grade and Heather introduced me to her we were as thick as thieves I loved her because she knew exactly who she was, who she wanted to be, and took no shit from not a single soul. people spend their entire lives finding themselves trying to figure…
Category: Family
Mommy dearest a series on toxic motherhood-Part 3
The High School Years I realized very early in High School that my disconnect with Boys was odd I should not try so hard to appeal and make them happy and get them to like me (I also didn’t realize you can have Daddy issues with your dad in the home go Figure huh lol ). So add my approval…
Mommy Dearest a Series on Toxic Motherhood-Part 2
You should know your family One thing I always noticed was how far removed I was of my father’s side of the family and how I honestly knew nothing about them. when we were allowed to be near them I found them hilarious, warm, powerful and very loving 💓💓💓 which confused me on why my mother never wanted us around…
Mommy Dearest- A series on Toxic Motherhood
My Triggers My children, Reading a story online and watching the news will trigger horrible things from my childhood. I want to honestly admit that there was a time that I had a happy and loving thought of my mother, but at 33 years of my life, it escapes me. You see my mother grew up in a whole not…
Farmers market and movies galore
Day spent doing yoga and grabbing yummy things from the local Framers Market and it looks like jayden is enjoying the portrait setting so n his iPhone lol Also I blocked a few guys that I thought I needed to reach out to get closure with knowing good damn well they are going to gaslight the fuck out of me …
The start of an awesome summer
so every summer around this time the munchkins head here to become texans for a few months . I’m excited because this time around I have a car for us to move around in I make more money and we can do all kinds of activities in super excited I have things planned from the start till the end of…
Welp I’m good a weekend of self care
He tried to WYD me a few more times before I finally unmatched him this will be my last week on Bumble so I can take a break from it when I start getting messages more like this and less of conversation that’s when I know I need to step back. So this was eventually how the advisor and I…
Merry Christmas y’all
This was a year of change , reflection and humbleness for sure. I realized my worth in the working world and that I know longer wanted to live paycheck to paycheck. I pounded the pavement to land my dream job and it came at the perfect moment. I’ve become closer with family members I lost touch with and exiled friends…
It is not your issue or problem on what another woman has done to him
My recently single sister is finding out lots of things about the dating world and how much it has changed within the last 6 years. Our last topic was on the meet and greets apparently she was running into men wanting to meet up at parking lots public places none the less but places where they can see if she…
Podcast episode 11 Toxic black mother’s
I wanted to take some time to process and think this post and the podcast through so that it isn’t angry or all over the place. The text messages you will see scattered across this post is a small look into the life of my relationship with my mother. They are not to bash her, I am not angry or bitter but…