LIFE, Things I see

Stop calling everyone your friend

I pride myself on having friendships that have lasted a majority of my life some 20 years and some a decade these have lasted through a divorce, through children, through moves, through life changes our friendships have never wavered. Any time that we’ve ever had disagreements, it was handled accordingly, it was handled in an adult manner we move forward…

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LIFE, Operation Get That Dick, Single in the city

Operation Dick

So I took my few weeks to clean and sage my home, checked my mental health got a facial, a massage, bought some new clothes and had lots of girl chats, blasted mary J. Trina lil Kim all that. That’s usually my self-care process lol. I checked out old podcasts to get my mind space back to where it should…

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LIFE, LOVE, Single in the city

Boundaries

With every ending of a relationship an awakening happens within me, of course, this wasn’t something I actually manifested until after the demise of Marcus and I. The ending of Nate “The Panamanian” gave me an awakening of Boundaries. shockingly this is also an act of Self-care. I created what I felt were boundaries on what I wanted and needed…

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LIFE

Self Sabotage

This weeks topic came from this podcast I was listening to. I am mad she read me for filth lol. I know I want to lose weight and I honestly thought that putting myself out there no one would like me and that is far from the truth lol. I also had a brief moment when I realized I could not…

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LIFE

Who are your social media friends really?

You share stories, memes, videos laugh react. Then you have a brief encounter on a status build a “bond” with people and boom friend request and then they are the best bud on your timeline. I can honestly say no one on social media would be in a bucket as a best friend like my real life best friends. I…

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Family, LIFE, LOVE, The Panamanian

Merry Christmas y’all

This was a year of change , reflection and humbleness for sure. I realized my worth in the working world and that I know longer wanted to live paycheck to paycheck. I pounded the pavement to land my dream job and it came at the perfect moment. I’ve become closer with family members I lost touch with and exiled friends…

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LIFE

You may be the shitty men you “hate”

There are women complaining online everyday about men forcing themselves in their lives everyday. -forcing them to speak. -feeling as if they are entitled to their time. -feel as if that woman is obligated to date them . -tell the men no not interested and they continue The list can go on and on. These same women will harass another…

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