LOVE, Single in the city, Toxic Series, Vetting Series

dating a Narcissist

1. He’s Your Dream Man Then He’s Not No need to wonder what it’s like to date a snake because if you’re dating a narcissist then you already know. They’re sly, stealthy, and experts in the use of manipulation. Not in the beginning, though. Nope, in the beginning, dating a narcissist will be awesome. He will treat you like a…

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LIFE, LOVE, The Panamanian, Things I see, Vetting Series

Unpacking and accountability

There are a group of people in this world who refuse to face themselves and their issues, yet continuously get into relationships and project their issues onto their partners. A cycle of failed relationships follow then they wonder why shit isn’t working out. When we meet people like that, who don’t hold themselves accountable it can be exhausting. Those people…

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LOVE, Toxic Series, Vetting Series

7 dating mistakes I made

  I was tired I was ran through (mentally speaking) did  I mention tired  lol ? Why was I running into the same men like the exes I hated  ? Why was the communication lacking  ? how did  I miss the clues? I didn’t listen to myself. I had no game  plan. I needed more time. I needed to date…

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LOVE, Single in the city

5 Best Blogs About OK CUPID

The Actual Blog  lol  I like Getting my information straight from the Horses  Mouth, You get an idea on how to work the site success stories and making the most of what OKC has to offer. Future Sense  I found this Article useful it goes into details on why OKC did away with Usernames and wen to basics  NAMES 🙂…

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LOVE

Autopilot dating

As much as I can not stand the dating Gurus they can sometimes make great points . I’m currently dealing with an autopilot dater and  as you can see from my recent posts have decided to no longer date him exclusively and just date him .I’m sure he will fall off or someone will come forward and take his spot…

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LOVE, Single in the city

Be Aware It is Cuffing season

AH, the Joys of Cuffing Season Gotta love  “Cuffing” Season The warnings usually start around the time it gets cold. Don’t fall for the hobosexuals . Dudes out here looking for homes to stay. I never realized how much I usually will avoid someone around this time of year and that it’s usually when I take my sabbatical.     Holding…

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