I was tired I was ran through (mentally speaking) did I mention tired lol ? Why was I running into the same men like the exes I hated ? Why was the communication lacking ? how did I miss the clues? I didn’t listen to myself. I had no game plan. I needed more time. I needed to date…
It’s funny the difference a year makes. Last year I was briefly involved with someone and I came across his Facebook the other day and he’s still posting subs about me. I was also happy none of our mutuals engaged with the thread. I give a brief run through of what it was since he lasted A month if that.…
The Actual Blog lol I like Getting my information straight from the Horses Mouth, You get an idea on how to work the site success stories and making the most of what OKC has to offer. Future Sense I found this Article useful it goes into details on why OKC did away with Usernames and wen to basics NAMES 🙂…
As much as I can not stand the dating Gurus they can sometimes make great points . I’m currently dealing with an autopilot dater and as you can see from my recent posts have decided to no longer date him exclusively and just date him .I’m sure he will fall off or someone will come forward and take his spot…
AH, the Joys of Cuffing Season Gotta love “Cuffing” Season The warnings usually start around the time it gets cold. Don’t fall for the hobosexuals . Dudes out here looking for homes to stay. I never realized how much I usually will avoid someone around this time of year and that it’s usually when I take my sabbatical. Holding…
Toxic Relationships series To catch up on the toxic relationship series check out : Click here for Part 1 Head over to Part 2 Grab the books I read in Part 3 Moving too Fast Part 1 recap We discussed moving too fast after leaving and having your self-esteem intake before you jump out there in the dating worlds. Putting…
Part 3 of the toxic series This is the third part of the series where we will have to do our unpacking in this section to catch up you can view part one and two by clicking the links below Part 1 PART 2 Picture it you have been linked to this person for however long you both were together you were bound…
Toxic Relationships and loving you first As I discussed in Part one of the Toxic Series self-esteem is really important to have before jumping back on the dating scene after leaving something toxic. Self-esteem and Validation go hand in hand if you are not careful .When you refuse to allow a chance for healing you are allowing…
Toxic Relationships I left a Toxic Relationship 3 years ago, 2015 I crossed the Texas state line for the first time in almost 7 years I felt a sigh of relief, I had clarity, I was less stressed and shortly after my phone dropped and cracked into a million pieces Some would take that as a sign to go back but …
