LIFE, LOVE, Single in the city, Things I see

How to ruin a life

I realized last night why I hate Friends with benefits situations.  Yes we’re having sex and we’re exploring each other’s bodies, but at the same time, there’s some level of friendship there. For some strange reason, I’ve always come across men that utilize me as a therapist during our whole FWB arrangement.  Last night after a phenomenal 3-hour sex-fest we…

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LIFE, LOVE, Single in the city

What is your relationship mindset?

It’s  funny when I took 3 years  off from getting  in a relationship  it shaped a lot  of what I thought  I wanted from a relationship then when the Panamanian came around  and  I was settled  into that for a year and  It  ended my mind shifted again on what I was  looking for I had  my  bullshit ass list…

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LIFE, LOVE, Single in the city

Boundaries

With every ending of a relationship an awakening happens within me, of course, this wasn’t something I actually manifested until after the demise of Marcus and I. The ending of Nate “The Panamanian” gave me an awakening of Boundaries. shockingly this is also an act of Self-care. I created what I felt were boundaries on what I wanted and needed…

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Family, LIFE, LOVE, The Panamanian

Merry Christmas y’all

This was a year of change , reflection and humbleness for sure. I realized my worth in the working world and that I know longer wanted to live paycheck to paycheck. I pounded the pavement to land my dream job and it came at the perfect moment. I’ve become closer with family members I lost touch with and exiled friends…

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LOVE, Single in the city, Toxic Series, Vetting Series

dating a Narcissist

1. He’s Your Dream Man Then He’s Not No need to wonder what it’s like to date a snake because if you’re dating a narcissist then you already know. They’re sly, stealthy, and experts in the use of manipulation. Not in the beginning, though. Nope, in the beginning, dating a narcissist will be awesome. He will treat you like a…

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