I realized last night why I hate Friends with benefits situations. Yes we’re having sex and we’re exploring each other’s bodies, but at the same time, there’s some level of friendship there. For some strange reason, I’ve always come across men that utilize me as a therapist during our whole FWB arrangement. Last night after a phenomenal 3-hour sex-fest we…
Consistency say it with me friends. Imagine meeting someone they call when they say they’re going to call, they text when they say they’re going to text, they execute a plan and provide success at every turn if they are unable to meet at a specific time or provide a call back they ensure in a well enough timeframe that…
Day spent doing yoga and grabbing yummy things from the local Framers Market and it looks like jayden is enjoying the portrait setting so n his iPhone lol Also I blocked a few guys that I thought I needed to reach out to get closure with knowing good damn well they are going to gaslight the fuck out of me …
It’s funny when I took 3 years off from getting in a relationship it shaped a lot of what I thought I wanted from a relationship then when the Panamanian came around and I was settled into that for a year and It ended my mind shifted again on what I was looking for I had my bullshit ass list…
This weeks topic was about the break up with Nate and moving forward.
With every ending of a relationship an awakening happens within me, of course, this wasn’t something I actually manifested until after the demise of Marcus and I. The ending of Nate “The Panamanian” gave me an awakening of Boundaries. shockingly this is also an act of Self-care. I created what I felt were boundaries on what I wanted and needed…
This was a year of change , reflection and humbleness for sure. I realized my worth in the working world and that I know longer wanted to live paycheck to paycheck. I pounded the pavement to land my dream job and it came at the perfect moment. I’ve become closer with family members I lost touch with and exiled friends…
Here’s a hint lol: So one year ago today this guy asked me to choose him. I said nothing and cooked dinner for him at my place lol. The last year has been one hell of a ride and I mean this in the most positive way. I will always say this ( unless something…
1. He’s Your Dream Man Then He’s Not No need to wonder what it’s like to date a snake because if you’re dating a narcissist then you already know. They’re sly, stealthy, and experts in the use of manipulation. Not in the beginning, though. Nope, in the beginning, dating a narcissist will be awesome. He will treat you like a…
