LIFE, LOVE, Single in the city, Things I see

How to ruin a life

I realized last night why I hate Friends with benefits situations.  Yes we’re having sex and we’re exploring each other’s bodies, but at the same time, there’s some level of friendship there. For some strange reason, I’ve always come across men that utilize me as a therapist during our whole FWB arrangement.  Last night after a phenomenal 3-hour sex-fest we…

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Single in the city

Are you a passive dater or active?

Scrolling dating apps just because. Ever done it? Are you annoyed when you know men are there just to be there and pass the time? I come across some profiles  JUST HERE FOR ENTERTAINMENT   Insert Eye Roll   Oh ok great I set up my wonderful profile, took my quiz just to be some entertainment for some bored broke…

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Single in the city, The officer

Fresh starts and clean slates

So I Decided  after 3 months of just fucking , not going on dates,  not knowing anything about the officer; that I wanted something more of substance. I’ll be honest I was bored with our 5 minute phone calls talking about nothing (I call these  his bread crumbs  conversation we discuss nothing  past surface  level but  he just wants  his…

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LIFE, LOVE, Single in the city

What is your relationship mindset?

It’s  funny when I took 3 years  off from getting  in a relationship  it shaped a lot  of what I thought  I wanted from a relationship then when the Panamanian came around  and  I was settled  into that for a year and  It  ended my mind shifted again on what I was  looking for I had  my  bullshit ass list…

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