Single in the city

why white guys suck

If you are a white guy and on a dating site especially one that matches you based off looks do not ask this dumb ass question. If we match you it means we like you. anytime I have ever had this happened  98% of the time they will fetishize the mess out of you meaning the next conversation is solely sexual based and…

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Single in the city

Netflix and dry conversation

      Of course, he was Unmatched. I saw a post a few months back about a man in Arizona that went  over young ladies home after chatting a couple  hours  on POF only to go to her house and she started acting weird and he pretended  to go to the car and some men popped  out  in some bushes had he…

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Single in the city

Married men

Married men are still men that are  Separated  I find this especially with African men that have moved to Houston all their children are in another country with their wives and he is Muslime I am not  . also, I am no one’s fucking Damsel

Single in the city

When do you immediately block a guy?

I hate when the dating profile doesn’t match the inbox conversation I also love the  fact of when they show their intentions so quickly .it’s a hit and miss with it  and you never know what they will be like inside the  inbox , I am not even sure why he needs a ride or die  or someone with brains…

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Single in the city

Chocolate chasers

I am an equal opportunity dater. I do not like chocolate chasers. I didn’t realize this was a thing until I moved to North Carolina in 2011, I met so many military men from the Midwest that never had a black woman and wanted me to be their first, one should be flattered but I was not lol. It is a…

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Single in the city

Boo, sexy,honey, dark chocolate

There is nothing more unattractive and nothing that dries my vagina up more are “cutesy ” pet names when I barely know you. I usually will put my name on the profile fill out my profile and make it witty and interesting. What do I get? Weirdos calling me chocolate, thick or what guys calling me queen and asking me…

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Single in the city

Are you Disqualifying Great Men ?

What about your friends? I have had friendships with my best friends ranging in years as early as  5 years and some almost 20 years. When I feel as if I am not doing something right I head to my friends since I know they know me and they will never steer me wrong, or just tell me some crap I…

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Single in the city

Tinder tales *side eyes*

I’m running fast and far away. I jumped back on tinder again since my sabbatical has ended. I’m still dating just felt that I was ready to put myself out there. I decided not to overwhelm myself with Tinder since it can be pretty overwhelming. How wrong am I to not want to rush anything? how wrong am I to…

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Single in the city

1 , 2, 3 strikes you’re out!

Just partaking in my nightly past time on tinder. He was around and lasted about a month I finally decided to unmatch him since after every time I’m trying to get to know him he’s discussing my looks or calling me baby and honey. I corrected him and he still called me sexy I get it men are visual creatures…

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