Single in the city

Boo, sexy,honey, dark chocolate

There is nothing more unattractive and nothing that dries my vagina up more are “cutesy ” pet names when I barely know you. I usually will put my name on the profile fill out my profile and make it witty and interesting. What do I get? Weirdos calling me chocolate, thick or what guys calling me queen and asking me…

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Single in the city

Are you Disqualifying Great Men ?

What about your friends? I have had friendships with my best friends ranging in years as early as  5 years and some almost 20 years. When I feel as if I am not doing something right I head to my friends since I know they know me and they will never steer me wrong, or just tell me some crap I…

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Single in the city

Tinder tales *side eyes*

I’m running fast and far away. I jumped back on tinder again since my sabbatical has ended. I’m still dating just felt that I was ready to put myself out there. I decided not to overwhelm myself with Tinder since it can be pretty overwhelming. How wrong am I to not want to rush anything? how wrong am I to…

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Single in the city

1 , 2, 3 strikes you’re out!

Just partaking in my nightly past time on tinder. He was around and lasted about a month I finally decided to unmatch him since after every time I’m trying to get to know him he’s discussing my looks or calling me baby and honey. I corrected him and he still called me sexy I get it men are visual creatures…

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Be Aware It is Cuffing season

AH, the Joys of Cuffing Season Gotta love  “Cuffing” Season The warnings usually start around the time it gets cold. Don’t fall for the hobosexuals . Dudes out here looking for homes to stay. I never realized how much I usually will avoid someone around this time of year and that it’s usually when I take my sabbatical.     Holding…

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PodCast, Single in the city

Episode 5 Podcast

Episode 5 Podcast: Topics this week on the  Podcast : how soon is too soon to discuss money? to move in or not before marriage. 50/50 on all bills or go big or go home. Child support and having babies with men behind on child support Dating bootcamp.   You can watch the podcasts every sunday at 6pm cst here

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All he has to offer is Dick

When did the Coddle era happen? So this single Journey has placed me in different areas of the dating Pool. There are times I have met some of the same men always in the same situation  My favorites are: Fuckboys/ I only can offer you Dick are always in the mix, then my personal favorite: the hold me down type…

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PodCast, Single in the city

Episode 3 Podcast

Episode 3 Podcast: January 7th Topics this week that were discussed  on the  podcast: Giving out second chances Watching his consistency Stop writing dissertations for men that will never read them. Dating hobosexuals How to find them online and how the dating boot camps help.