Single in the city

Single in the city

When do you immediately block a guy?

I hate when the dating profile doesn’t match the inbox conversation I also love the  fact of when they show their intentions so quickly .it’s a hit and miss with it  and you never know what they will be like inside the  inbox , I am not even sure why he needs a ride or […]

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Single in the city

Chocolate chasers

I am an equal opportunity dater. I do not like chocolate chasers. I didn’t realize this was a thing until I moved to North Carolina in 2011, I met so many military men from the Midwest that never had a black woman and wanted me to be their first, one should be flattered but I was […]

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Single in the city

Stop wasting your time and send invoices

My profile says I am single. I also state not looking for hookups and his profile was blank and usually, this is what they are looking for. I guess he got angry and reported my profile to Tinder and they deleted it.

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Single in the city

Boo, sexy,honey, dark chocolate

There is nothing more unattractive and nothing that dries my vagina up more are “cutesy ” pet names when I barely know you. I usually will put my name on the profile fill out my profile and make it witty and interesting. What do I get? Weirdos calling me chocolate, thick or what guys calling […]

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Single in the city

Are you Disqualifying Great Men ?

What about your friends? I have had friendships with my best friends ranging in years as early as  5 years and some almost 20 years. When I feel as if I am not doing something right I head to my friends since I know they know me and they will never steer me wrong, or just […]

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Single in the city

Tinder tales *side eyes*

I’m running fast and far away. I jumped back on tinder again since my sabbatical has ended. I’m still dating just felt that I was ready to put myself out there. I decided not to overwhelm myself with Tinder since it can be pretty overwhelming. How wrong am I to not want to rush anything? […]

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Single in the city

1 , 2, 3 strikes you’re out!

Just partaking in my nightly past time on tinder. He was around and lasted about a month I finally decided to unmatch him since after every time I’m trying to get to know him he’s discussing my looks or calling me baby and honey. I corrected him and he still called me sexy I get […]

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Single in the city

Be Aware It is Cuffing season

AH, the Joys of Cuffing Season Gotta love  “Cuffing” Season The warnings usually start around the time it gets cold. Don’t fall for the hobosexuals . Dudes out here looking for homes to stay. I never realized how much I usually will avoid someone around this time of year and that it’s usually when I take […]

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PodCast
Single in the city

Episode 5 Podcast

Episode 5 Podcast: Topics this week on the  Podcast : how soon is too soon to discuss money? to move in or not before marriage. 50/50 on all bills or go big or go home. Child support and having babies with men behind on child support Dating bootcamp.   You can watch the podcasts every […]

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Single in the city
Toxic Series

Things to Avoid After Leaving a Toxic Relationship (Toxic Series Part 2)

  Toxic Relationships and  loving you first     As I discussed in Part one of the Toxic Series self-esteem is really important to have before jumping back on the dating scene after leaving something toxic. Self-esteem and Validation go hand in hand if you are not careful .When you refuse to allow a chance […]

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