Single in the city, Things I see

Alone But Not Lonely

In today’s fast-paced society, we’ve become accustomed to filling the eeriness of silence with fluff. We turn to many distractions as a means of escaping feelings of idleness or boredom. But the main thing we wish to elude is loneliness. Solitude does not have to alienate or lonesome. In fact, solitude and loneliness are distinctly separate. The death of a…

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LIFE, Things I see

If You’ll … Then I’ll …

Fill in the blanks in the above sentence however you want. Have you heard this often? Do you say it often? Do you think about it often? This simple sentence is a contract that is often unconsciously created with people, and it can have a disastrous effect on your life. Just the other day, I was thinking of the Panamanian…

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Single in the city, Things I see

Unicorn? or are you just delusional?

Queens do not step off their thrones to chase peasants I had an aha moment shortly after my relationship ended with the Panamanian  I have a  degree, Own place, Own car beautiful, Fat ass, amazing cook, and I can fuck like your favorite Pornstar Jada Mother fucking Fire. I am a Unicorn I suck Dick I don’t nag too damn…

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LIFE, Things I see

Impossible is Just a Word

Impossible is Just a Word Everyone, at some point in his or her life, has dreamed of being somebody special, somebody big. Who hasn’t fantasized about being the one who hits the game-winning homer? Who hasn’t dreamed of being the homecoming queen? And how many times have we dreamed of being rich, or successful, or happy with our relationships? Often,…

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LIFE, Single in the city, Things I see

Why you should follow my journey

I understand I am not everyone’s cup of tea. I am however someone’s dirty martini (blue cheese olives please) Who am I really? I’m an unorthodox mom (being a millennial has certain benefits LOL). I am not a helicopter parent and I find myself open and strict at the same time as a mom. I’m not their best friend but…

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How to ruin a life

I realized last night why I hate Friends with benefits situations.  Yes we’re having sex and we’re exploring each other’s bodies, but at the same time, there’s some level of friendship there. For some strange reason, I’ve always come across men that utilize me as a therapist during our whole FWB arrangement.  Last night after a phenomenal 3-hour sex-fest we…

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