LOVE, Toxic Series, Vetting Series

7 dating mistakes I made

  I was tired I was ran through (mentally speaking) did  I mention tired  lol ? Why was I running into the same men like the exes I hated  ? Why was the communication lacking  ? how did  I miss the clues? I didn’t listen to myself. I had no game  plan. I needed more time. I needed to date…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so important part 6

My sex drive  is weird When I was pregnant  I never wanted to be touched and according to my friends, all of them wanted sex more I am not sure if that was my marriage and how  I felt or if that is just my thing. I am saying this because my sex drive was the same with both of my children.…

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so Important part 5

I was blessed with a Mother in Law not from Hell I have heard horror stories from Friends about their  In-laws and the families of the person they have dated. I don’t mind a family oriented person I do mind Helicopter parents and family members with a grown a man. I missed Family get together since my ex-was in the military and I…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so Important Part 4

Few mistakes I made in my marriage with money were: not setting up a budget for our household not save for when it was time to end  I know how that sounds, it’s like a bad idea to already think of leaving when you are married but my mother has been married for 34  years and she always told me…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so Important Part 3

Why Vetting and the  kids topic are very important   I had a friend that was  in a relationship with a man for 5 years  they started with the same ideas that neither wanted children as time grew on my friend changed her mind and never brought it up or talked with her boyfriend and the demise of the relationship…

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so important part 2

  Vetting and Relationship “goals” Everyone loves the looks of relationship goals but does anyone honestly understand that it actually means more than just matching outfits and taking cool vacation pics? When I called off my marriage it took those that weren’t super close to me by surprise. on the outside, I had a super successful military husband we had the…

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so important

What is Vetting? With time and asking the right questions, bad dating experiences can be avoided. One thing I did in the past was meet someone, like them, barely know them sleep with them and Bam we are together. Truth be told this is how a lot of relationships are developed toss a new baby in the mix that’s the…

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