This is not the kind of white guy I want near me or even interested in dating . I am an equal opportunity dater however if I date someone thats white I need him to actually know hes a white guy (I am not interested in any man that grew up around black people and thinks he is black ) I need him white but aware of social injustice of people of color and how he may have privilege due to his skin color and doesn’t think that crap is ok .
I am not interested in any man that wants to look at me as a fetish or a color of the rainbow he can look at his checklist bucket and mark off one of his conquests . Common sense on apps like Bumble or Tinder it is a match based off looks so If I am black and you are white and I match you that usually goes without saying that I am interested . White men kinda dropped the ball and the interests vanishes the moment he calls you ebony, chocolate or mentions hint about a swirl or saying anything about being down .