What did you want to be when you grow up?

as a child, I wanted to be a lawyer/ COP/ and a movie star all at the same time  ( I loved Law and order at a very young age  lol  mix this with Night court, and  Murder she wrote this was my destiny lol)

when I came  of age in high school I thought I could become a singer

yea I can’t sing lol once I realized this  I wanted to join the Airforce this was my goal and  I was making all the right choices to build my legacy to have this happen until I met my ex-husband lol.

who doesn’t love a plot twist lol?

I’m sure you were asked this question at least once when you were a youngster.

When asked the question, did you have an answer at the ready, or did you need a few minutes to think about it?

We all had dreams of becoming something great, like a fireman, a teacher, or a rock star, just to name a few. Well, how did you do? Maybe you never aspired to be what you set out to be or said that you would become. But then again, things change. The older we get, our tastes change, our view of the world changes, even our goals change.

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned during my career path is to do something you love to do.

Why is this important?

I feel that if you enjoy what you make a living at, you end up being happy in more ways than one. Life itself becomes much more interesting and fun. You find yourself speaking passionately to others about your work. The experiences you have along the way become much more rewarding, and enrich your life in many ways.

You meet fascinating people. I know people who have turned their favorite hobbies into small businesses and have succeeded. Their passion carried them through to success.

While no job or business is perfect, the important thing is to enjoy it, even learn from it. If you are unhappy in your current situation, why not take steps now to change it? Somewhere out there is a job or business that is perfect for you. If you are already there, I applaud you. If not, realize that it may take some time to figure out what you really want to do, and even more, time to actually get there. That’s all right! I can tell you from experience that finding and doing what you love is absolutely worth it, every step of the way. All of the research, training, and hands-on experience has made me a stronger, happier person.

Feeling in charge of my own destiny – well, there just is no greater feeling.

It’s almost as close to the most amazing orgasm you could possibly have lol.

Do what you love, and love what you do, whatever that may be.

You’ll be happier for it, trust me.

I promise you will never look back.