Bumble Tales, Single in the city

I had to kick him off the bench

My stories with Nigerian men specifically never end well with me. I want to slightly blame cultural reasons or differences but at some point, I do want to sit back and ponder why this happens. I find it to be the same wash and repeat with them we meet and talk on the phone (I’m super old school on this…

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POF TALES, Single in the city

Pof tales

  I tell them this  on my profile  lol  don’t tell me what I have to be  when i was not interested you in the first place.   and that was that  smh you have already stressed me yes lets bypass my character limit  smh     BYE SIR!!!!!

POF TALES, Single in the city

Pof tales

  We talked  on the  phone  found  out  he was over 50 he lied about  his age  on his profile  I’ll say this he  looks  good for  his age but  i could not get past the lying and  him being close to my fathers age and the fact that when he got on the  topic  of sex he couldnt  help…

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LIFE

What’s your Issue?

Most people have some aspects of themselves that they would like to change. But how often do you dig deep to find the root of the problem? You have to address the issues that need to be changed. Without doing this you will be stuck in a cycle of trying to change but you won’t make much progress. Denying that…

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LIFE

Self-identity? Who are you really?

We identify with many things, but this is just a process in our minds. In fact, this identification causes us to suffer. Your favorite basketball team loses, and you suffer as though YOU lost. Your car is damaged and it feels like YOU are hurt. Somebody attacks who they think you are, and it is as though they could actually…

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LIFE

Letting Life happen

What great rewards we can receive when we let life guide us on our path to purpose? Moments and situations seem to flow with a distinct pattern and insight without the force of our own hands. What powerful occurrences take place when we simply stop to allow them to. It is the wave we ride, not go against. Allowing life…

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LIFE

Do Yoda Proud: Meditation 101.

Meditation refers to a state where your body and mind are consciously relaxed and focused. Practitioners of this art report increased awareness, focus, and concentration, as well as a more positive outlook in life. Although there are many different approaches to meditation, the fundamental principles remain the same. The most important among these principles is that of removing obstructive, negative, …

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