Single in the city

Pre dates are for men that will forever be friendzoned

I will say this I do not  like  Pre dates for several reasons

-I am dating with a purpose

-you  wasting your time and  money is also wasting  my  damn time and  Money

-I don’t want to deal with your creepy ass so I want to feel a level of comfort with you before I even want to meet you in public.

I am vetting you  just like you  should be vetting  me If after this  (what I feel is a long  process in itself  )

If you still feel after  this vetting  process to pre-date me  because  you  have yet to unpack your  issues  on what a previous woman  has done to you

I am too much woman for you  anyways


I honestly was looking for him to clarify on the friend zone he placed himself into lol he flipped out an unmatched before I could  say anything  .


If you  have to pre date every woman  you meet it means you are too lazy to Vet properly  or too broke to date  in the first place.

About KayDarden

My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog. On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
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