I will say this I do not like Pre dates for several reasons
-I am dating with a purpose
-you wasting your time and money is also wasting my damn time and Money
-I don’t want to deal with your creepy ass so I want to feel a level of comfort with you before I even want to meet you in public.
I am vetting you just like you should be vetting me If after this (what I feel is a long process in itself )
If you still feel after this vetting process to pre-date me because you have yet to unpack your issues on what a previous woman has done to you
I am too much woman for you anyways
I honestly was looking for him to clarify on the friend zone he placed himself into lol he flipped out an unmatched before I could say anything .
If you have to pre date every woman you meet it means you are too lazy to Vet properly or too broke to date in the first place.