Pre dates are for men that will forever be friendzoned

I will say this I do not  like  Pre dates for several reasons

-I am dating with a purpose

-you  wasting your time and  money is also wasting  my  damn time and  Money

-I don’t want to deal with your creepy ass so I want to feel a level of comfort with you before I even want to meet you in public.

I am vetting you  just like you  should be vetting  me If after this  (what I feel is a long  process in itself  )

If you still feel after  this vetting  process to pre-date me  because  you  have yet to unpack your  issues  on what a previous woman  has done to you

I am too much woman for you  anyways

 

I honestly was looking for him to clarify on the friend zone he placed himself into lol he flipped out an unmatched before I could  say anything  .

 

If you  have to pre date every woman  you meet it means you are too lazy to Vet properly  or too broke to date  in the first place.

Published by KayDarden

Howdy, folks! I'm the creative force behind the blog "Girl in H-Town." I wear a few hats – writer, mental health advocate, and I like to think of myself as a "dating wing woman" with a passion for empowering women, helping them heal from their trauma, and improving their mental well-being. I was born and raised in a small Texas town, and let me tell you, life threw some real curveballs my way. I focus on empowerment, self-care, and self-love. When you read my blog, you're getting a piece of my heart – it's raw, honest, and deeply personal. I pour my own journey of healing and self-discovery into every word. When I'm not tapping away on the keyboard or working, I enjoy the simple things in life. I'm a bookworm, love tending to my garden, and find peace in yoga. But my pride and joy? Well, that'd be my super genius teenagers. Family is everything to me, and I'm committed to using my platform to positively impact this world. Whether you're looking for inspiration, guidance, or just an ol' Texas story, my writing is here to make a lasting impression. I'm a staunch advocate for mental health and an essential voice in the conversation around trauma and healing. So, if you're ready to be inspired, stick around. Kay Darden of "Girl in H-Town" is here to give you a Texas-sized dose of wisdom and heart.

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