LIFE, LOVE, Single in the city

Why you need someone to show up and show out

Consistency say it with me friends.

Imagine meeting someone they call when they say they’re going to call, they text when they say they’re going to text, they execute a  plan and provide success at every turn if they are unable to meet at a specific time or provide a call back they ensure in a  well enough timeframe  that they will be unable to attend or call at that time.

Picture this  also having open and healthy lines of communication even arguments.

I think your mind will blow when this person is also open and available for love and they profess said love in whatever open way y’all decide as a couple. And they provide in whatever form that you both have agreed as a couple whether that be financially, emotionally, physically.

Sounds way too good to be true huh?

It’s honestly not now this person they have their flaws but the basics of a functioning stable mate they knock that out the park. This is not anything surface level like job and car and home this is all the internal makeups on what any person would need to feel loved healthily. How would I know this? I have had it before ok not all let’s be honest lol but it was found in pieces of men that toss an alert off in my mind. Oh wow, so this is what this is supposed to feel like then shortly after I am thinking I will never go back to the old way again lol.

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About KayDarden

My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog. On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
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