LOVE, Toxic Series, Vetting Series

7 dating mistakes I made

  I was tired I was ran through (mentally speaking) did  I mention tired  lol ? Why was I running into the same men like the exes I hated  ? Why was the communication lacking  ? how did  I miss the clues? I didn’t listen to myself. I had no game  plan. I needed more time. I needed to date…

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Throwback Series

Single in the city : worst date ever

We went out for drinks everything after chatting for a bit on POF  everything was honestly going great on the date was great until he decided he wanted to talk politics with our nice waitress that voted for Trump and almost started a fucking riot in the bar. So we took a walk around the park things appeared to have…

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Throwback Series

Single in the City

Single in the City Let’s go back waaay back to when I first became Single and why I started my blog Over the next few months I will be sharing my dating journey with you.So in the past year                   CHA-CHA-CHA – CHANGES     I have moved three times: North Carolina,…

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Throwback Series

Single in the city: Adonis

*the names have been changed to protect the dates* Now Adonis is not my first rodeo we actually met 4 years ago in North Carolina when he was in the military and I was going through a very messy divorce he caught me at a different point of my life when he wanted a relationship and I honestly just wanted…

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PodCast

Podcast episode 12 (Self Love)

This weeks Podcast topic was  on : Self-love Check out the blog : Links for places to get you to self-love: Therapist directory for Black Women Chalene Johnson Podcast on Decluttering your life A book called You are a BadASS    

Single in the city

Why dating some white men is hard

  This is not the  kind  of white guy I want  near me or even interested  in dating . I am an equal opportunity dater  however if I date someone  thats  white I need  him to actually  know hes a white guy (I am not interested  in any man that grew  up around black people and thinks  he is black ) I need him…

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