7 days of Self Care

7 days of self care (ASMR)

3 years ago I was involved  in one  of the  most stressful events  in my  life with an EX and my best friend  Heather suggested ASMR  to help calm my nerves ASMR : Autonomous sensory meridian response Autonomous sensory meridian response (ASMR) is a calming, pleasurable feeling often accompanied by a tingling sensation. This tingle is said to originate in a…

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LIFE

I left my Toxic Job

If you needed a sign about leaving your Toxic Job this is it I decided to boss up after the continuous changes with my Job. I had only started working there 10 months prior, and after 3 new bosses, I was done. I was with my previous employer about 5 years I met amazing people, had great benefits and I…

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LOVE, Toxic Series, Vetting Series

7 dating mistakes I made

  I was tired I was ran through (mentally speaking) did  I mention tired  lol ? Why was I running into the same men like the exes I hated  ? Why was the communication lacking  ? how did  I miss the clues? I didn’t listen to myself. I had no game  plan. I needed more time. I needed to date…

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Throwback Series

Single in the city : worst date ever

We went out for drinks everything after chatting for a bit on POF  everything was honestly going great on the date was great until he decided he wanted to talk politics with our nice waitress that voted for Trump and almost started a fucking riot in the bar. So we took a walk around the park things appeared to have…

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Throwback Series

Single in the City

Single in the City Let’s go back waaay back to when I first became Single and why I started my blog Over the next few months I will be sharing my dating journey with you.So in the past year                   CHA-CHA-CHA – CHANGES     I have moved three times: North Carolina,…

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