LOVE, Toxic Series, Vetting Series

7 dating mistakes I made

  I was tired I was ran through (mentally speaking) did  I mention tired  lol ? Why was I running into the same men like the exes I hated  ? Why was the communication lacking  ? how did  I miss the clues? I didn’t listen to myself. I had no game  plan. I needed more time. I needed to date…

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Throwback Series

Single in the city : worst date ever

We went out for drinks everything after chatting for a bit on POF  everything was honestly going great on the date was great until he decided he wanted to talk politics with our nice waitress that voted for Trump and almost started a fucking riot in the bar. So we took a walk around the park things appeared to have…

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Girl Chat Episode 9

Topics this week: -My first somewhat human contact with the bitter guy with a bunch of kids. How to research a guy you met online Crazy guys and red flags the link to the blog about the hurt man I talked about in the podcast :


Cluttered house cluttered mind

Why I needed to fix my Cluttered life While on my morning Facebook stalker page ( don’t you dare judge me ) I came across my favorite fitness guru Chalene  Johnson she had a short video up about decluttering your home, space everything. So she gives a little shout-out to her podcast so I thought what the hell fill my mind…

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Guest Blog Post, PodCast, Single in the city

Girl Chat Episode 8

This weeks Girl chat with Christina it was my first time getting access to have someone jump on live with me , we had technical difficulties (ok I DID ) so the video starts at 9:48 this weeks topics  : Topics this week : -Bad Credit, behind on child support, stays at home with family, working minimum wage job why…

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Episode 7 Pod Cast

    My favorite  Live so far with my best friend  of 20 years topics this week are : -building a mansion with struggle love how sway? -getting married a piece of paper or a business deal ? – How many chances are too many  -is valentines day a big deal or corporate greed? you can follow Heather at  Heather Talks…

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Deals for the day

Deals for the Day

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Single in the city

Okc tales

You should always read a Profile especially if you get a  message. The thing that caught my eye was the free meal talk. So many men honestly think women are just starving so poorly that we are swindling them out of 40 dollars for a meal. It’s comical at this  point and  truth be told I would never go on a date with a…

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