Single in the city

Moving fast offline

so his last  Relationship was  in December The last date was two weeks ago and he moves fast. sadly for him, he moved way too fast on the assuming aspect too  lol He was blocked right after that.

Single in the city

why white guys suck

If you are a white guy and on a dating site especially one that matches you based off looks do not ask this dumb ass question. If we match you it means we like you. anytime I have ever had this happened  98% of the time they will fetishize the mess out of you meaning the next conversation is solely sexual based and…

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Single in the city

Netflix and dry conversation

      Of course, he was Unmatched. I saw a post a few months back about a man in Arizona that went  over young ladies home after chatting a couple  hours  on POF only to go to her house and she started acting weird and he pretended  to go to the car and some men popped  out  in some bushes had he…

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Single in the city

Married men

Married men are still men that are  Separated  I find this especially with African men that have moved to Houston all their children are in another country with their wives and he is Muslime I am not  . also, I am no one’s fucking Damsel

Single in the city

When do you immediately block a guy?

I hate when the dating profile doesn’t match the inbox conversation I also love the  fact of when they show their intentions so quickly .it’s a hit and miss with it  and you never know what they will be like inside the  inbox , I am not even sure why he needs a ride or die  or someone with brains…

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Single in the city

Chocolate chasers

I am an equal opportunity dater. I do not like chocolate chasers. I didn’t realize this was a thing until I moved to North Carolina in 2011, I met so many military men from the Midwest that never had a black woman and wanted me to be their first, one should be flattered but I was not lol. It is a…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so important part 6

My sex drive  is weird When I was pregnant  I never wanted to be touched and according to my friends, all of them wanted sex more I am not sure if that was my marriage and how  I felt or if that is just my thing. I am saying this because my sex drive was the same with both of my children.…

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Vetting Series

Why vetting is so Important part 5

I was blessed with a Mother in Law not from Hell I have heard horror stories from Friends about their  In-laws and the families of the person they have dated. I don’t mind a family oriented person I do mind Helicopter parents and family members with a grown a man. I missed Family get together since my ex-was in the military and I…

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Vetting Series

Why Vetting is so Important Part 4

Few mistakes I made in my marriage with money were: not setting up a budget for our household not save for when it was time to end  I know how that sounds, it’s like a bad idea to already think of leaving when you are married but my mother has been married for 34  years and she always told me…

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