The Officer :
So he has been given a second chance and I’m just not feeling him as much as I did before .
We have surface level conversations he acts as if his job and his life is a huge secret. Maybe he thinks that or that I would never understand if he explained it to me. There have been 5 dates he half assed tossed together and then when he is free has expectations for me to drop everything and just see him.
So what happened after I grew tired of the behavior we had a conversation about how I cant get to know him on surface level only and osmosis and if it was a huge issue with him allowing me to get to know him this needed to be ended ASAP. also that when he is free he should make time to see me and provide me with a proper window to make sure I was free at that time. There was a 180 and he has planned and executed the last date perfectly and even wants us to have a lil vacation out Of town for a few days . He makes sure when he is free he makes time for me and all surface level conversation has ceased to exist .
He was doing very well we had open lines of communication , he was on point with dates and making sure he cherished the valuable time allotted to him and then everything was great until last week. He set up to see me on a Thursday I texted him and advised I was thinking of going to dinner with friends and if he cared to join us (he technically never set up time on our date so this was me also trying to figure out the window I needed to end my time with friends and see him).
Our date was not turned to a cancelled date but he also advised me he was going to do happy hour with his coworkers. I didn’t hear from him and he in a round about way glazed over it said his I am sorry and we went out on a date and ended it with a night cap .
This Past week he went ghost and popped up a couple days later stated he had family drama and that he left his phone at home from work that day. hmmm ok . Moving forward he was ghost and short with conversation for a few days and popped up today to say he was sick and he was leaving for his cruise and he would see me when he got back next week (I’ve known about the cruise he at least let me know this )
I am leaning back and this week away from him will help with this .