Queens do not step off their thrones to chase peasants
I had an aha moment shortly after my relationship ended with the Panamanian
I have a degree, Own place, Own car beautiful, Fat ass, amazing cook, and I can fuck like your favorite Pornstar Jada Mother fucking Fire.
- I am a Unicorn
- I suck Dick
- I don’t nag too damn much
I pride myself on having the mindset that I am laid back and can be submissive for the right one.
also, I thought this basic mindset made me the prize you know the one, a Unicorn, the Wifey type and the men who didn’t pick me are idiots in a sense they were but my mind was focused and based on the acceptance of men and not taking a step back into what I want.
Well hello, basic Bitch it’s nice to meet you
Imagine thinking that having all of these attributes made you the prize
None of this matters for me beneficial in any way (okay maybe the degree lol) all the rest was used as bait to get men. I wore a mask as if I was this ego-driven Spartan and I was a basic bitch .
I pretended like I was living my best single life and I needed no man to make me happy, but I also did everything and walked a certain pattern for the male gaze.
a hard look into that of Kay Darden :
- I was constantly being taken advantage of by men
- I put everyone first and put myself last at every moment
and then wondered why I felt depleted afterward
Why I could never win
why this was happening again
and why was I angry all the damn time
Men have been known to :
- start Wars
All for Women
It took me 9 months to gather my thoughts get my mind correct and realize I am powerful and amazing because of me not who I have as my flavor of the year at that moment.
I hope this makes you realize the same.