Why vetting is so Important part 5

I was blessed with a Mother in Law not from Hell I have heard horror stories from Friends about their  In-laws and the families of the person they have dated. I don’t mind a family oriented person I do mind Helicopter parents and family members with a grown a man. I missed Family get together since my ex-was in the military and I spent all of my young adult life away from family. One mistake I realized was telling my friends and family everything after my marriage ended I think I did this for the simple fact when things ended with my ex-husband everyone was shocked I painted such a great picture of him they found me crazy to think I would leave him. My life was perfect, right  ? I believe having a healthy balance of having a support system is great but with that being said not everyone should be apart of everything that goes in in your relationship.

Questions  about Family

  • What are your expectations for your spouse’s involvement with your parents, siblings, and extended family members?
  • What are your holiday plans? Will you host or travel? How do you decide which family to spend the holidays with?
  • Is it ok to confide the details of your marriage with family members? If yes, what are the limits and boundaries?
  • Would an aging parent ever live with you? Under what conditions?

Published by KayDarden

Howdy, folks! I'm the creative force behind the blog "Girl in H-Town." I wear a few hats – writer, mental health advocate, and I like to think of myself as a "dating wing woman" with a passion for empowering women, helping them heal from their trauma, and improving their mental well-being. I was born and raised in a small Texas town, and let me tell you, life threw some real curveballs my way. I focus on empowerment, self-care, and self-love. When you read my blog, you're getting a piece of my heart – it's raw, honest, and deeply personal. I pour my own journey of healing and self-discovery into every word. When I'm not tapping away on the keyboard or working, I enjoy the simple things in life. I'm a bookworm, love tending to my garden, and find peace in yoga. But my pride and joy? Well, that'd be my super genius teenagers. Family is everything to me, and I'm committed to using my platform to positively impact this world. Whether you're looking for inspiration, guidance, or just an ol' Texas story, my writing is here to make a lasting impression. I'm a staunch advocate for mental health and an essential voice in the conversation around trauma and healing. So, if you're ready to be inspired, stick around. Kay Darden of "Girl in H-Town" is here to give you a Texas-sized dose of wisdom and heart.

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