Vetting Series

Why vetting is so Important part 5

I was blessed with a Mother in Law not from Hell I have heard horror stories from Friends about their  In-laws and the families of the person they have dated. I don’t mind a family oriented person I do mind Helicopter parents and family members with a grown a man. I missed Family get together since my ex-was in the military and I spent all of my young adult life away from family. One mistake I realized was telling my friends and family everything after my marriage ended I think I did this for the simple fact when things ended with my ex-husband everyone was shocked I painted such a great picture of him they found me crazy to think I would leave him. My life was perfect, right  ? I believe having a healthy balance of having a support system is great but with that being said not everyone should be apart of everything that goes in in your relationship.

Questions  about Family

  • What are your expectations for your spouse’s involvement with your parents, siblings, and extended family members?
  • What are your holiday plans? Will you host or travel? How do you decide which family to spend the holidays with?
  • Is it ok to confide the details of your marriage with family members? If yes, what are the limits and boundaries?
  • Would an aging parent ever live with you? Under what conditions?
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About KayDarden

My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog. On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
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