What is Vetting?
With time and asking the right questions, bad dating experiences can be avoided. One thing I did in the past was meet someone, like them, barely know them sleep with them and Bam we are together.
Truth be told this is how a lot of relationships are developed toss a new baby in the mix that’s the majority of the relationships I see on a regular basis.
More truth? This is how my last two relationships we’re developed. I had a lot of trials and errors and I didn’t realize anything about vetting until about a year ago. When I started it gave me an idea of what I wanted and didn’t want
It also helped with getting trash men far away from me lol.
This series will go through some things you should be asking during the dating phase, now do not drill them all in one sitting these should be over the course of a few months. Think about your deal breakers with these questions if he isn’t on the same page as you leave him where he stands.
Personal and Life Goals
What are your top personal goals?
What you do you value and what do you want to accomplish with your life?
Is your partner fully supportive of those goals?
If your goals conflict, how do you decide which to pursue?
These are important especially if you want someone ambitious and not stagnant in their life. I found this with men that lived at home with family and didn’t have much to offer and they were fine with it. You want them to know what your goals are and your path to it and if they are ok with it. No goals no you.