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Letters to my "lovers" - Girl in Htown

Letters to my “lovers”

Dating sucks

I mean honestly, what’s better than talking with someone weeks or months on end finally become intimate for them to vanish without a trace.

What is better than a man wanting to do everything under the sun that looks like a relationship just to say he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with anyone. To only find out he is a inhale exhale away from walking down the aisle

What is better than to have a man emotionally unavailable , unstable , an utter bum . This man usually can only provide dick and disappoints.

I can tell you what’s better

Nails on a chalkboard

Having amazing sex you are at the brink of an orgasm for him to change position.

Getting a paper cut and squeezing a lime on your fajitas and you get it on your hand.

All of these options I would take over any man trying to date me and that’s the outcome.

I always wanted to tell these men off as if they would care . Make a case for myself and end with him remorseful and seeing the value in me and sweeping me off my feet and it’s perfect .

Look I’m a hopeless romantic . Thinking this over I am a hopeless mess if I think anything of substance would come afterwards either. This is an amazing thing about growth it gives you flashbacks of when you tolerated something stupid just to say you have a man

This series are letters I should have texted , things I should have said outloud to the men that were too stupid to see me .

Disclaimer I could give a rats ass on a lot of them but these letters are for me to keep track of times when I did not value myself but should have

Published by KayDarden

Howdy, folks! I'm the creative force behind the blog "Girl in H-Town." I wear a few hats – writer, mental health advocate, and I like to think of myself as a "dating wing woman" with a passion for empowering women, helping them heal from their trauma, and improving their mental well-being. I was born and raised in a small Texas town, and let me tell you, life threw some real curveballs my way. I focus on empowerment, self-care, and self-love. When you read my blog, you're getting a piece of my heart – it's raw, honest, and deeply personal. I pour my own journey of healing and self-discovery into every word. When I'm not tapping away on the keyboard or working, I enjoy the simple things in life. I'm a bookworm, love tending to my garden, and find peace in yoga. But my pride and joy? Well, that'd be my super genius teenagers. Family is everything to me, and I'm committed to using my platform to positively impact this world. Whether you're looking for inspiration, guidance, or just an ol' Texas story, my writing is here to make a lasting impression. I'm a staunch advocate for mental health and an essential voice in the conversation around trauma and healing. So, if you're ready to be inspired, stick around. Kay Darden of "Girl in H-Town" is here to give you a Texas-sized dose of wisdom and heart.