in 2015 I just got back home to Texas and I was still living with my best friend Heather. I met this guy on POF, He was cute nice teeth had Just retired from the Navy, and stayed with his parents while a house was getting built up for him.

on our first date, we went to a Japanese restaurant we had a lot of great conversation he seemed different compared to a lot of men that I had dated but I was also just chalking that up to me just being super nervous during our date. no first kiss on that first date when we had our second date he asked me what did I want to do I had advised him that it was perfectly fine for him to pick because I was still in that mindset that I wasn’t too comfortable with picking dates for men because I really wasn’t sure where their money was at. Needless to say, he left the date up to me and at the end of the date had already come out of pocket $450 🤷🏿‍♀️ the third date we had drinks at the Kemah boardwalk my best friend and a few of her friends came together and we ended the night back at Heather’s place, now at this point, I was going to go to bed and he was supposed to go home but he was very adamant about coming over to the house that night.

so he comes over everyone’s having a great time talking drinking normal stuff then it was time for him to go home again but at this point, he was trying to find every excuse that he possibly could to stay the night we were also trying to find my purse which he felt the need to assist me and was not going to go home until he found the purse needless to say the purse was never found that night, he stayed the night but we didn’t do anything and he slept right next to me in the bed.

he gets up in the morning goes home and throughout the day my friend Heather and her sister helping me look for this purse so I’m losing my mind.

I can’t find the purse I know I put it in one particular spot so just on a whim I called him to see if maybe perhaps he had seen me place it someplace in the bedroom.
he was very defensive (okay red flag number one ), then as I proceeded to ask him more questions then finally the cat gets let out of the bag. he actually hid my purse in the apartment somewhere and what he had planned on doing was once he got up this morning and got ready for his day he would call me and then help me look for it, find the purse, and then come out as the hero

In this same conversation he advised me he was a Virgin had never had sex and really wanted to seal the deal with me . his words, not mine was he wanted to get laid and I seemed like the most interested woman that he’s ever come across that would maybe possibly give him a chance of sex when I tell you I hung up the phone so quickly and this man was blocked.
he popped up after that every year or two apologize about what he’s done trying to check in on me to see if I’m still single and I haven’t heard from him in a few years .but I just so happened to come across his Facebook page because he was in the people you may know he doesn’t look like how he used to look and I always kind of have a chuckle whenever he does come across because now he officially looks like he’s finally got some sex LOL I don’t know virgins just have a look about him you know what I mean? 🤷🏿‍♀️