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No Sex and Feelings - Girl in Htown

No Sex and Feelings

Why you bothering me when you know you don’t want me?

So officer set up his 7th “date/I’m going to see you ” Unbeknownst to me he was grabbing dinner and coming over to chill at my place. I was not privy to this Information until an hour after my shift and I called and text him for him to tell me he was at the hospital with his father. We had previously had a conversation about how he needed to step back from dating me because his time is more so focused on his father, his children, and work. All rightfully so in my opinion however he has asked for exclusivity from me and the time I get from him is limited and of low value. I expressed this and he went off a checklist of all the things he is changing about himself to be with me I found myself frustrated and just honestly hanging up the phone with him.

Taking sex off the Table and you will get your feelings hurt with me. Period.

He shows up 2 hours after he said he would empty handed and just wanted to sleep in the bed and advised me sex with us was no longer on the table as if he was punishing me in a way for being upset that there was not a date last night. I was awakened this morning while he watched sports on his phone for a couple hours he wanted to go out for breakfast but just wanted to watch me eat (also realized the last 3 actual dates when went on and food was involved he didn’t eat only me ) I declined and advised in a nice way I wanted him out my bed to provide my own self some form of sexual release. Currently, I am placing him on Do Not Disturb for the next week to gather my energy again and will see how I feel after on if I will be continuing this or will this be his last post.

Published by KayDarden

Howdy, folks! I'm the creative force behind the blog "Girl in H-Town." I wear a few hats – writer, mental health advocate, and I like to think of myself as a "dating wing woman" with a passion for empowering women, helping them heal from their trauma, and improving their mental well-being. I was born and raised in a small Texas town, and let me tell you, life threw some real curveballs my way. I focus on empowerment, self-care, and self-love. When you read my blog, you're getting a piece of my heart – it's raw, honest, and deeply personal. I pour my own journey of healing and self-discovery into every word. When I'm not tapping away on the keyboard or working, I enjoy the simple things in life. I'm a bookworm, love tending to my garden, and find peace in yoga. But my pride and joy? Well, that'd be my super genius teenagers. Family is everything to me, and I'm committed to using my platform to positively impact this world. Whether you're looking for inspiration, guidance, or just an ol' Texas story, my writing is here to make a lasting impression. I'm a staunch advocate for mental health and an essential voice in the conversation around trauma and healing. So, if you're ready to be inspired, stick around. Kay Darden of "Girl in H-Town" is here to give you a Texas-sized dose of wisdom and heart.