So let’s rewind to 2 days prior I am working I get off of work and start my daily packing I realized I’m running low on boxes so I place an order with a guaranteed delivery right on time everything I planned for this move is moving according to plan I am excited until about 10pm I realized I had not heard from Nate all day I called twice and went to sleep.
I get up the next day as my last day before taking my PTO at work. at about 3pm Nate calls me while I’m in a meeting I call back for him to dump on me he was furloughed because of the COVID19 and he was crying and upset and that’s why he didn’t call me the day previously I didn’t overreact about it because I was not allowing the darkness to seep to me I gave him some encouraging words and he advised he would be over to my place to help me pack when I got off work I stated cool and he called me around 6 to check to see if my boxes were delivered they had not but I still had a couple of hours to go he said ok good well I’m going to spend some time helping my family / again no reaction got off the phone and 8 pm came my boxes did not come in when I reached out to him he advised me he was going to go get me some boxes and be on his way here .he followed up with me a couple of times and by 11pm he was not here.
I went to bed slept a few hours and when I got up to call it was going straight to voicemail. so I had a coffee and finished packing the rest of my apartment and meditated to soothe my nerves to wait to hear what excuses he shall pull out his ass this time around. not only did this man go ghost but he also didn’t show up last night and if he is also a no show for today’s move.
