Unicorn? or are you just delusional?

Queens do not step off their thrones to chase peasants

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I had an aha moment shortly after my relationship ended with the Panamanian 

I have a  degree, Own place, Own car beautiful, Fat ass, amazing cook, and I can fuck like your favorite Pornstar Jada Mother fucking Fire.

  • I am a Unicorn
  • I suck Dick
  • I don’t nag too damn much

I pride myself on having the mindset that  I am laid back and can be submissive for the right one.

also, I thought this basic mindset made me the prize you know the one, a Unicorn, the Wifey type and the men who didn’t pick me are idiots in a sense they were but my mind was focused and based on the acceptance of men and not taking a step back into what I want.

 

Well hello, basic Bitch it’s nice to meet you

Imagine thinking that having all of these attributes made you the prize

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None of this matters for me beneficial in any way  (okay maybe the degree lol) all the rest was used as bait to get men. I wore a mask as if I was this ego-driven Spartan and I was a basic bitch .

I pretended like I was living my best single life and I needed no man to make me happy,  but I also did everything and walked a certain pattern for the male gaze.

a hard look into that of Kay Darden :

  • I was constantly being taken advantage of by men
  • I put everyone first and  put  myself last at  every moment

and then wondered why I felt depleted afterward

Why I could never win

why this was happening again

and why was I angry all the damn time

Men have been known to :

  • lie
  • Cheat
  • steal
  • betray
  • start Wars

All for Women

 It took me 9 months to gather my thoughts get my mind correct and realize I am powerful and amazing because of me not who I have as my flavor of the year at that moment.

I hope this makes you realize the same.

Published by KayDarden

Howdy, folks! I'm the creative force behind the blog "Girl in H-Town." I wear a few hats – writer, mental health advocate, and I like to think of myself as a "dating wing woman" with a passion for empowering women, helping them heal from their trauma, and improving their mental well-being. I was born and raised in a small Texas town, and let me tell you, life threw some real curveballs my way. I focus on empowerment, self-care, and self-love. When you read my blog, you're getting a piece of my heart – it's raw, honest, and deeply personal. I pour my own journey of healing and self-discovery into every word. When I'm not tapping away on the keyboard or working, I enjoy the simple things in life. I'm a bookworm, love tending to my garden, and find peace in yoga. But my pride and joy? Well, that'd be my super genius teenagers. Family is everything to me, and I'm committed to using my platform to positively impact this world. Whether you're looking for inspiration, guidance, or just an ol' Texas story, my writing is here to make a lasting impression. I'm a staunch advocate for mental health and an essential voice in the conversation around trauma and healing. So, if you're ready to be inspired, stick around. Kay Darden of "Girl in H-Town" is here to give you a Texas-sized dose of wisdom and heart.