August 2020 - Girl in Htown

3 to 4 years ago a family friend fell on some hard times and needed some additional help with her children they reached out to my parents to assist to be able to Foster her child she got back on her feet my family and their family have known each other for decades so my parents came off as very…

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7 Effective Ways To Set Your Goals In Motion Today October 26, 2020

Stop seeking approval from people. You don’t need anyone’s permission to fulfill your dream. Trust yourself and give yourself permission to succeed. Having support from people whose opinion you value is a wonderful thing If you really desire to turn your idea into reality, constantly floating it around and seeking the approval of people […]

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5 + 5 = Your Dream October 25, 2020

I know what you’re thinking… Okay, Kay, 5+5 does not equal 5 so let me please explain. Let’s start with a question. How many times have you heard that you need to have a “long term” goal and be focused for the entire length of that “long term”? In this article, I am going […]

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Limited Options and a feeling of hopelessness October 24, 2020

I am over it Bums emotionally unavailable broke deadbeats narcissist ass man Please don’t tell me it’s what you attract. I am all for accountability in the moments I ignored the red flags but come the fuck on. I am chatting with some friends this week and all of our convos are about men in […]

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Where is Happiness? October 23, 2020

Where is Happiness? Do you move through life feeling every day is the same? Like some repeated pattern that goes on and on? For some people, there’s nothing new to do under the sun, and nowhere to go. Everything is just boring, boring, boring. They work so hard to earn enough money to play, but […]

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5 Steps to Goal Setting Success October 22, 2020

Goal setting is the true secret to success in any area of life. But although setting a goal may seem simple, achieving it is usually another question altogether. Why is that? Because you will never achieve your goals unless you: (1) know exactly what you want, (2) are passionate about your goal, and (3) […]

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I am trying to have a garden like Jody’s mom October 15, 2020

I never understood why my mother and grandmother loved gardens . I thought it was weird and I honestly killed every plant I ever owned 🙄😒. This pandemic however forced me to sit back go into straight hermit mode and find a way to ground and center myself and with this patio at the new […]

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Are you basic? October 14, 2020

DO YOU? give off the appearance of being strong? get pushed around? fall for male manipulation more times than you can count? Wish you were someone else? Wear a mask to hide who you really are? are you ego based at the mercy of the world? you have a need to be validated by men […]

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Letters to men who have only wanted to “go with the flow” me October 14, 2020

I’ve always wanted to write a scathing letter and send it off to the men that have just wanted to “go with the flow”. Or even better I am out in public with my new amazing man and we see your ass make small talk for you to wish us well and tell him how […]

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Letters to my “lovers” October 13, 2020

Dating sucks I mean honestly, what’s better than talking with someone weeks or months on end finally become intimate for them to vanish without a trace. What is better than a man wanting to do everything under the sun that looks like a relationship just to say he doesn’t want to be in a relationship […]

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Focusing on Success!!! October 10, 2020

It’s so easy to let your mind get preoccupied and lose track of your goals and dreams. The world is more full of distractions than ever before, and they are all at our fingertips – social networking, computer games, television, mobile devices, and so on. And even if you don’t give in to those […]

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Girl in Htown

Month: August 2020

Mommy dearest a series on toxic motherhood-part 6