Single in the city

Are you basic?


  • give off the appearance of being strong?
  • get pushed around?
  • fall for male manipulation more times than you can count?
  • Wish you were someone else?
  • Wear a mask to hide who you really are?
  • are you ego based at the mercy of the world?
  • you have a need to be validated by men


hello Pick me it’s nice to you

Look at your life

do you make mistakes and do not take accountability?
are you respected?
are you happy?

I get it women are fed this bullshit about the good girls get the reward.
we are told to submit, stay silent, be a ride or die, and for what?
to spend your life at the service of others. you do not manifest your destiny by places first

this is not a life of a queen with a kingdom

I want more out of life than to wait for any man to create a life for me.

bored women with nothing to do entertain clowns.

About KayDarden

My name is Kay, I am a Proud Texan, Mom of 2 genius babies lol and a Fur-mom. I love Fashion, Tacos & shoes. But I have realized over the last few years I am a serial dater I have stories for days most are crazy, sexy cool lol. I started sharing them with friends a few years back and thought it would be neat to journal my lessons on my blog. On my blog, you get a view of crazy dating scenarios and the lessons I have learned from them all, Fashion ideas, and also my frustrations since I chopped all my hair off and went natural.
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