Meeting the Kids

So the kids came down in the summer and it was going to be the first time that they officially met the sigma previously it was more so in passing when the kids would fly in to Texas at the time he worked at the airport with TSA. He gave us a chance to have some space before he was slowly introduced he had met the kids about 5 months prior when we came out to North Carolina but that was just for a few days this time the kids were going to be down for about 3 months. Now unbeknownst to me he did something very different than any of my exes and that was to actually sit down and have a conversation with the kids separate for me. I was improving to the conversation but from what my kids told me he just wanted to let them know that he was not trying to go anywhere that he was very serious about me and advised them that what his goal with me was to marry me. Now with the kids the conversation has came up with two of my exes about marriage the kids were way too young to recall any sort of thing like that with Lance but I remember Marcus asking this question and my son was very clear when he said no. My son was also equally as clear to say no to Nate. Not even before the end of the summer when my kids had the conversation with me they had no issue with us getting married they were in full support of the relationship realizing that communication was something that we needed to work on that was brought up. But they love the fact that they can genuinely see that he cared for me and he was always trying to make sure that everyone was safe and happy uncomfortable. He even taught my son how to ride a bike which I’m not sure if you’re aware I cannot ride a bike but their father can take that how you see fit LOL. When the summer came to an end and the kids left I was actually pleasantly surprised how he responded to them and how he missed them once they were gone.