Met online and went out for drinks and shared an appetize we had great conversation , laughed talked about Football since the Superbowl was in town at the moment . the date ended and he asked to see me again the following week and asked for suggestions . I suggested Bowling at one of my favorite places We bowled for a couple of hours that following Wednesday and shared a appetizer. He stated he had never bowled before his score proved that was a lie lol . when he brought me home we shared a kiss and talked until he made it home and throughout the week he wanted to go out again on Saturday so we had dinner and went and saw the new 50 shades of grey Movie and had drinks on the beach in Galveston we stayed out kinda late and talked on the phone again until he made it home .
he lasted about a month before he started to become pushy and then this happened :
I am so Mad I could Honestly spit .
Mr Perfect first date and extra dates basically just expired .
So Last Sunday He wanted to do some errand things together no Biggie go to the gym and hang out around the beach . He gets to my place and wanted to come inside and rest for a minute . No big deal with me again he took a nap on my couch so I thought it would be a great time to catch up on some business emails and things with the site. When he woke up it was dark out and by then too late to do any of the errands minus the gym . He then suggested we go to walmart he would buy dinner and anything else I needed If I were to cook it , again still not a big deal . We picked up the items we needed and came back to my place , I unpacked started cooking he gets a facetime from a friend of his that lived in California I cooked and was done about 30 minutes later and instead of interrupting him I waited till he was done to ask him if he wanted a plate. I had already eaten and the moment he found out I ate he was furious and went on a rant about traditions (He was African) I explained southern traditions I am not going to interrupt you while you are on the phone . Once we got past it and both fed he wanted to sit on the couch and talked this is where he messed up . He told (not asked) me to kiss him tried to force himself on me and was punched and kicked . he went ghost for 6 months popped up went ghost again and tried to show up within the last 6 months and was advised that I was seeing someone and he could go on with his life.
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