Fill in the blanks in the above sentence however you want. Have you heard this often? Do you say it often? Do you think about it often? This simple sentence is a contract that is often unconsciously created with people, and it can have a disastrous effect on your life. Just the other day, I was thinking of the Panamanian and his favorite lines would be If I did Something then he would react this way, it’s usually whatever he […]
Continue ReadingQueens do not step off their thrones to chase peasants I had an aha moment shortly after my relationship ended with the Panamanian I have a degree, Own place, Own car beautiful, Fat ass, amazing cook, and I can fuck like your favorite Pornstar Jada Mother fucking Fire. I am a Unicorn I suck Dick I don’t nag too damn much I pride myself on having the mindset that I am laid back and can be submissive for the right […]
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What is karmic pattern clearing? Karmic pattern clearing is the cleansing of ingrained habitual responses that dictate the way we react to certain situations. The process of karmic pattern clearing often leads to the surfacing and uncovering of tendencies and thought-patterns that are stored in our subconscious mind. For that matter, meditation and an understanding of our dreams are helpful skills in our managing of the process. Karmic energies are neither good nor bad. Energy is just the way it […]
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High vibration is linked to positivity, love, compassion, and peacefulness. In contrast, low vibration is linked to fear, anxiety, sadness and depression. The higher your vibration, the more authentic you are, and the more capable you’ll be of tuning into what you really want and then manifesting it in the world. When I say this I mean in all aspects of your life. You know That negative nancy at your job that always has something to complain […]
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TOPICS This week this will be an actual Live : – my dating sabbatical is over and what’s going on now -what’s going on with the site and blog during the holidays and after -my ex the Panamanian popped up again and its juicy asf -update on the Nigerian man that couldn’t speak unless I spoke for him and how that chapter has ended Nigerian Bae Just as quickly as the chapter started it ended: Nigerian Baes Last chapter https://blog.girlinhtown.com/category/the-panamanian/ […]
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It’s funny when I took 3 years off from getting in a relationship it shaped a lot of what I thought I wanted from a relationship then when the Panamanian came around and I was settled into that for a year and It ended my mind shifted again on what I was looking for I had my bullshit ass list all ready to go and something shifts my mind while dating and I had to go back to the drawing […]
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You lot that think you can ghost on people and disappear from friendships without a word, or otherwise run from human interaction without explanation should remember that you aren’t the only human in the equation and that you aren’t the only one who matters. You can hurt people. You don’t have to. (This doesn’t apply to abusive or toxic situations for obvious reasons.) Some of you deliberately do this because you enjoy the feeling of knowing someone is disturbed by […]
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Definition If you’ve ever been in a relationship with someone who’s emotionally unavailable, you know the pain of not being able to get close to the one you love. They’re evasive, make excuses, or are just inept when it comes to talking about feelings or the relationship. Some use anger, criticism, or activities to create distance. You end up feeling alone, depressed, unimportant, or rejected. Usually, women complain about emotionally unavailable men. Yet many aren’t aware that they’re emotionally unavailable, […]
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With every ending of a relationship an awakening happens within me, of course, this wasn’t something I actually manifested until after the demise of Marcus and I. The ending of Nate “The Panamanian” gave me an awakening of Boundaries. shockingly this is also an act of Self-care. I created what I felt were boundaries on what I wanted and needed to have a healthy and happy relationship (clearly he crossed all of those hence why he is gone) One constant […]
Continue ReadingThere are a lot of things I need to unpack from my childhood and what event made me come to the realization with this was a small kick back with the Panamanians family. I’m ashamed to be even typing this blog but here we go. His family celebrates literally the entire month they set up the tree, set up the lights have a lighting ceremony, movie night, there’s brunch, spa days, chill days, Christmas festivities, a birthday party for his […]
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