LIFE, Single in the city, Things I see

Why you should follow my journey

I understand I am not everyone’s cup of tea. I am however someone’s dirty martini (blue cheese olives please) Who am I really? I’m an unorthodox mom (being a millennial has certain benefits LOL). I am not a helicopter parent and I find myself open and strict at the same time as a mom. I’m not their best friend but…

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BOSS ISH

7 Effective Ways To Set Your Goals In Motion Today

  Stop seeking approval from people. You don’t need anyone’s permission to fulfill your dream. Trust yourself and give yourself permission to succeed. Having support from people whose opinion you value is a wonderful thing If you really desire to turn your idea into reality, constantly floating it around and seeking the approval of people will waste your time and…

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BOSS ISH, LIFE, My Spiritual Journey

5 + 5 = Your Dream

  I know what you’re thinking… Okay, Kay, 5+5 does not equal 5 so let me please explain. Let’s start with a question. How many times have you heard that you need to have a “long term” goal and be focused for the entire length of that “long term”? In this article, I am going to focus on a 5-year…

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Single in the city

Limited Options and a feeling of hopelessness

I am over it Bums emotionally unavailable broke deadbeats narcissist ass man Please don’t tell me it’s what you attract. I am all for accountability in the moments I ignored the red flags but come the fuck on. I am chatting with some friends this week and all of our convos are about men in their mid 30’s to 40’s…

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LIFE

Where is Happiness?

Where is Happiness? Do you move through life feeling every day is the same? Like some repeated pattern that goes on and on? For some people, there’s nothing new to do under the sun, and nowhere to go. Everything is just boring, boring, boring. They work so hard to earn enough money to play, but yet their playtime passes so…

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BOSS ISH

5 Steps to Goal Setting Success

  Goal setting is the true secret to success in any area of life. But although setting a goal may seem simple, achieving it is usually another question altogether. Why is that? Because you will never achieve your goals unless you: (1) know exactly what you want, (2) are passionate about your goal, and (3) have a solid, realistic plan…

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My "Green Thumb"

I am trying to have a garden like Jody’s mom

I never understood why my mother and grandmother loved gardens . I thought it was weird and I honestly killed every plant I ever owned 🙄😒. This pandemic however forced me to sit back go into straight hermit mode and find a way to ground and center myself and with this patio at the new place I’ve wanted to adore…

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Single in the city

Are you basic?

DO YOU? give off the appearance of being strong? get pushed around? fall for male manipulation more times than you can count? Wish you were someone else? Wear a mask to hide who you really are? are you ego based at the mercy of the world? you have a need to be validated by men   hello Pick me it’s…

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BOSS ISH

Focusing on Success!!!

  It’s so easy to let your mind get preoccupied and lose track of your goals and dreams. The world is more full of distractions than ever before, and they are all at our fingertips – social networking, computer games, television, mobile devices, and so on. And even if you don’t give in to those distractions, there are life distractions…

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