Single in the city, The officer

Fresh starts and clean slates

So I Decided  after 3 months of just fucking , not going on dates,  not knowing anything about the officer; that I wanted something more of substance. I’ll be honest I was bored with our 5 minute phone calls talking about nothing (I call these  his bread crumbs  conversation we discuss nothing  past surface  level but  he just wants  his…

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Single in the city, The officer

Emotionally Unavailable Men

Definition If you’ve ever been in a relationship with someone who’s emotionally unavailable, you know the pain of not being able to get close to the one you love. They’re evasive, make excuses, or are just inept when it comes to talking about feelings or the relationship. Some use anger, criticism, or activities to create distance. You end up feeling…

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The officer

No Sex and Feelings

Why you bothering me when you know you don’t want me? So officer set up his 7th “date/I’m going to see you ” Unbeknownst to me he was grabbing dinner and coming over to chill at my place. I was not privy to this Information until an hour after my shift and I called and text him for him to…

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