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Toxic Series
Vetting Series

7 dating mistakes I made

  I was tired I was ran through (mentally speaking) did  I mention tired  lol ? Why was I running into the same men like the exes I hated  ? Why was the communication lacking  ? how did  I miss the clues? I didn’t listen to myself. I had no game  plan. I needed more […]

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Single in the city
The Panamanian
Things I see

My introduction-The Panamanian

It’s funny the difference a year makes. Last year I was briefly involved with someone and I came across his Facebook the other day and he’s still posting subs about me. I was also happy none of our mutuals engaged with the thread. I give a brief run through of what it was since he […]

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Throwback Series

Single in the city : worst date ever

We went out for drinks everything after chatting for a bit on POF  everything was honestly going great on the date was great until he decided he wanted to talk politics with our nice waitress that voted for Trump and almost started a fucking riot in the bar. So we took a walk around the […]

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Throwback Series

Single in the City

Single in the City Let’s go back waaay back to when I first became Single and why I started my blog Over the next few months I will be sharing my dating journey with you.So in the past year                   CHA-CHA-CHA – CHANGES     I have […]

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Podcast 13

The topic this week: -Defining and making your own happiness -making decisions with the influence of others.  

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Throwback Series

Single in the city: Adonis

*the names have been changed to protect the dates* Now Adonis is not my first rodeo we actually met 4 years ago in North Carolina when he was in the military and I was going through a very messy divorce he caught me at a different point of my life when he wanted a relationship […]

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PodCast

Girl Chat Episode 9

Topics this week: -My first somewhat human contact with the bitter guy with a bunch of kids. How to research a guy you met online Crazy guys and red flags the link to the blog about the hurt man I talked about in the podcast : http://blog.girlinhtown.com/red-flags/

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Single in the city

5 Best Blogs About OK CUPID

The Actual Blog  lol  I like Getting my information straight from the Horses  Mouth, You get an idea on how to work the site success stories and making the most of what OKC has to offer. Future Sense  I found this Article useful it goes into details on why OKC did away with Usernames and […]

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PodCast

Episode 7 Pod Cast

    My favorite  Live so far with my best friend  of 20 years topics this week are : -building a mansion with struggle love how sway? -getting married a piece of paper or a business deal ? – How many chances are too many  -is valentines day a big deal or corporate greed? you […]

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