My Rollercoaster Journey to Closure and Healing: Just like that its over

 

🔒 The Deceptive Mask Unveiled: A Revelation

As the sigma and I finally decided to attend therapy, I believed it would help us strengthen our bond and understand each other better. Little did I know that this therapy journey would lead me to the truth I was subconsciously avoiding.

💔 Facing Financial Obstacles

During therapy, my debit card situation brought our underlying issues to light. He offered no support, and I found myself handling it all alone. This experience showed me that our relationship lacked the support and care I needed.

🙅‍♀️ Unmasking the Gaslighting

As time passed, I couldn’t ignore the inconsistencies in his actions and words. His social media presence revealed a different side of him, contrary to what he claimed. The gaslighting began, leaving me questioning my own instincts and perceptions.

🌪️ Emotional Turmoil

Our arguments became frequent, and he even declared it was over one day, only to take it back the next only to officially break up a week later at the end of March 2023. I was caught in a whirlwind of emotions, unsure of what was real and what was just manipulation.

💡 Embracing Clarity and Healing

In the midst of confusion, I found strength within. I realized I had seen the signs all along, but I chose to ignore them, hoping for a different outcome. It was time for me to take back control of my life and prioritize my well-being.

🌱 A Journey to Self-Discovery

Stepping away from the relationship, I focused on healing and rediscovering my true self. I embraced my worth, and slowly, the pain started to subside.

💬 My Message to You

I share my story not to seek sympathy but to empower others who may be facing similar challenges. Remember, you are not alone, and you deserve a relationship filled with love, respect, and honesty.

never settle for less than you deserve, and always remember that you have the strength to overcome any storm that comes your way. 

 

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